This PAC is to help you become the best version of yourself. An 'IT GIRL' in your own right. What's stopping your star quality from being expressed? The version that makes people "oh she's got that quality about her that just makes me wanna be spectacular too". Imo everyone gets a chance to shine atleast once in their life. Grandly and unapologetically, if you have enough strength to overcome your fears.
And some people just stay being the fabulous star they are just like the millions of stars in the sky. But many are here on Earth, so, do you wanna glow from the inside too, here and now?
So I will today be showing you the things that you are doing that's creating a barrier between you and the star YOU. I will also give you few pointers on what you should embody more.
This pick a pile was created in collaboration with @leafsvflowers. First 3 piles are in my Blog(in this post) and the latter 3 are in her Blog. You can scroll down to click on the link to her post.
Disclaimer: Tarot only shows possibilities based on current energies. They change all the time as no person stays the same way forever, the mind changes back and forth and it creates new possibilities. Take the reading as a guidance and not as law. And finally, only take what resonates.
⚠️ Warning: Some piles have senstive content because this is about confronting what's wrong. So proceed with caution.
PILE 1
I clearly see that you are not nurturing yourself, your feminine side especially. You do not let things flow to yourself and out, you could somehow be disrespecting your own emotional and nurturing side because of it. You refuse to see things as they are and could possibly delude yourself that you are doing a good job of handling your emotions well, when in fact you are operating from a place of unevolved masculine values(all people have both energies). Intuition blocked and so is the creativity, the divine energy that moves within all those who create. You might possibly even withdraw without proper confrontation of situations, stuffing it all back down. Withdrawal symptoms. It could come out as being emotionally manipulative. You have become a shell of superficiality and inside-there's nothing for your soul to sustain. You are holding on, making it seem it's all good outside but inside.... Your soul is screaming for freedom, to be wild and free.
Embody- THE PHEONIX, THE WOLF.
These cards call you out to embrace the changing and unstable times. But not turn into something you are not, Overcome them to create your own unique identity, the one that will make you the fantastic YOU, the you that just pulses with feminine nurturing energy. Focus of being you, not fitting in the aesthetics of this fake world of social media. If you are someone who focuses on being socially accepted and in keeping up appearances, don't.
The real you shines so much better and they are a force to be reckoned with, they cannot ever be ignored. They respect the differences they bring to the world and flaunt it with power and beauty. Don't try to fit in, instead go where you are drawn to naturally. Let your feminine side breath!!!! You should try self-pampering body massages, some sun maybe that vitamin D(*wink wink*) and saunas.
PILE 2
(Warning- Sensitive topics below)
I see you have this tunnel vision when it comes to your emotions and love, that you are not seeing the other important details. You could have been abused at some point because of you being this understanding, emotionally nurturing, always showing up for other people energy.
You could love to love. Love to fall in love. You could be having this tendency to get obsessed about love, getting swept up in the feeling of love or having this false definition of it too.
I see you are failing to see the dark side of the Human Psyche. And you are rejecting it from yourself too, accept your shadow and let it serve you, not the other way around. Your shadow part always shows where you have been disrespected.
Darling, it's time you stop this and start investing in yourself. No love comes before self-love and it will never ever be as satisfying as self-love, I promise. Give the love to yourself, it's gonna be so worth it. Hold yourself like you'd hold an abandoned puppy or kitten- with love and care. That’s what I'm seeing now. Nurture yourself. Hold your emotions as the precious thing they are, don't drown in them. Don't let it prevent you from seeing the bigger perspective, the analytical side of it. And I say this with love, for God's sake don't give out your love to everyone or anyone. Stop giving too much out to people before yourself. At the same time, don't let the shadows engulf you.
You could also indulge in your emotions more than necessary when it's not the right time to indulge in it, you could think that pain is all you are made for- kind of like a spiralling down. It could make you wallow in them over and over. Instead of letting your pain swallow you, use it to see what exactly is needing attention. We don't give enough attention on the problem to prevent it from happening again sometimes. So no, don't get all closed up because of pain now.
I understand that we all crave love and acceptance but you are not loving yourself, you are disrespecting yourself by giving away yourself to people who don't see your value, who don't see what you offer.
You could also abandon love completely and hyperfixate on your freedom at times- hyper independence. You could focus too much into your work in attempts to abandon your emotions, to not see the shadow aspects of a situation and to even protect yourself against these harsh truth of reality too. Choose connections that are nurturing vice-versa and not only by one side. Choose yourself first. And always. Be kind to people just not overly giving than necessary.
Most importantly don't give up on love and don't give up on your own softness, your ability to enjoy life. Make sure you are not drowning in emotions cause of your romanticization of things. Don't turn your back to love, don't turn your back from facing the shadow.
Embody- THE PEACOCK.
You are beautiful, elegant and royal. Assert yourself, no matter what others say even if it seems too much for them to handle you. Like the peacock, show up in your celestial glory. Show up with your colourful feathers. If they get intimated it's not your problem. The peacock dances right before it rains, similarly let the nature guide you and let yourself be attuned to the nature. People could try to belittle you by pointing out your shortcomings but you are much more than the things that happened before. And even the shortcomings they notice in you is actually there to protect you from people like them. They are not your people.
I actually read something after I fully finished interpreting the readings but i had to add this in, "Even though the peacock feathers look beautiful to the perceivers, for the peacock it's just hair". You could very well be not noticing your own magic.
Enjoy and rejoice the encounters the universe is bringing you now, no matter brief or prolonged. You could also move around, dance and do rain gazing to channel this IT GIRL moment/energy more. Water is very healing for you.
PILE 3
(Warning- Sensitive topics below)
You could be someone who gives out responsibilities to others and in worst cases, you assign your own responsibilities to other people. Some people here could also abandon their responsibilities and focus only on things that give you happiness. While it is a good habit, you could do that at expense of others. Or you simply could be avoiding your responsibilities and putting in work.
You wish to indulge in things that bring you happiness and comfort only. You want to be this all knowing, knowledged authority figure. On the outside it seems like you are doing this for the best, but it's your ego wanting attention and praise. You might also have a habit of making yourself seem 'wishing the best to all' to justify things you have done for your own benefit. You could use your resources to fulfill your wishes and addictions. Honestly, you seem to be addicted to things that are not serving for your highest in long run.
You could also have this false belief that everything will turn out to your favour even if situations seems to demand your attention to change for the better. Yeah you seem to take advantage of people's compassion and empathy to take advantage of them to get what you want. Simple as that. Tone down your ego and hold yourself responsible.
Anyhow you are letting superficial pleasures have a vice over you. You are falling back into toxic patterns. Excess indulgence in guilty pleasures that is turning you into getting addicted to them. You could be again thinking everything's gonna be fine and you are better than other people but, it seems they are empty assurances that are simply not true.
Embody- TARANTULA.
You are called to give more attention to what you consume, what you think and make conscious decisions on everything in your life. And don't try to play with people's feelings. So you really think the things you did were for the best? Or were those a result of your own needs. See if you can get your needs though alternate methods that don't involve the shady business. Don't try to make things seem more dramatic than they are too. Re-think your purpose and aim in life. Your toxic coping mechanisms and habits will come to bite you back soon if you don't start taking steps to change them.
As always, feel free to give feedback and let me know what you thought. If you need someone to talk to for support my DM's and ask box is open esp. for this post readers.
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This pile was created in a collaboration with @starmuselove and half of the piles will be accessible to read on her blog.
The topic of the pile is about making your inner potential seen. You will get the knowledge about what habits are stopping you from achieving it and you will recieve advice on how to be the "it girl" in your social circle.
Instruction: take a deep breath, close your eyes and calm your thoughts until you feel peace within yourself. Hold this feeling and choose a picture that resonates with you the most.
Which pile did you choose?
Pile 1
Pile 2
Pile 3
Pile 4
Pile 5
Pile 6
Voting ended onDec 7, 2024
Pile 1
The reading for this pile you will find at @starmuselove's: here
Pile 2
The reading for this pile you will find at @starmuselove's: here
Pile 3
The reading for this pile you will find at @starmuselove's: here
Pile 4
It seems you are in the situation that advise you set new goals and make plan for the future. You have rested enough and you are ready to make new connections both private and professional, but you should stay away from commercial activities and making short trips.
The obstacle you are facing lay within traditional values and rigid structures of your community. That inflexibility decreasing your creativity and willingess to make a better change. I am guessing you would like to make yourself in a situation where you will have countless possibilities, so you will feel secure. But what you really are looking for is finding your own path and enlightment about life that will suit you.
Advice for you is too confront reality in honest and straightforward way. Leave behind everything that is deceitful and dishonest that doesn't follow your morality. Your current environment may focus more on negative side of things, not noticing what's good and valuable in the world and in you. Don't focus on not important things, they don't deserve your energy. Cleanse your body and your space, bringing new fresh air. Pay attention to have your surrounding clean and fresh.
If you will honestly, with agreement of both your mind and heart, confront yourself with what not serving you and shift your perspective, you can count on achieving empowering moments that will heighten your self-confidence and courage to face your challenges in the future.
There's also someone reliable you can count on - mentor, potential business partner, patriarch. Have bigger goals in mind.
Pile 5
Your worries have been increasing for some time already. Anxiety, poor sleep, no appetite could be your daily struggles that are adding to your feelings of disconnection with yourself and incompatibility with the world. The problem is that you don't know or are unable to take care of yourself as you wish to. The financial situation could be one of your worry as well.
You wish for a stable, secure structure and a place in the world to keep you grounded, but the thing you do is making yourself restless, occuping your mind with many different task.
The environment you are in is keeping you from embracing change. It puts in a place that doesn't allow for your full potential to grow. There could be some patterns, behaviour or outdated beliefs within you that are keeping you from achieving your goals. In this situation, you should take a role of student to know more about topics that intrests you. The commitment and effort, careful planning and practical approach is your way of going on.
What can help you is brave sezing the opportunity that can make a change. Don't be afraid of new things and communicate directly. You could attract right things for yourself through forward-thinking ideas. Sometimes it's worth to take a lead, even if you fear confrontation or consequences that are hard to predict. It could be also connected with person - air sign, adventurous, impulsive, inteligent, full of life. Could be someone you deeply admire, is your hero.
You are actually very close to being an "it girl" or your potential for it is high. To make it long lasting you would need to let go of your restrain and let your emotional side show off more often. It's when you will attract people who care about you or you will meet more of these people, so they will give you a sense of community and belonging.
Pile 6
There's a feeling of incompletion in you that has been haunting you for some time. Some of you could struggle with contradictory emotions inside you. The others could have been experiencing lows in their personal relationships, where you and the other person are on opposite sides of the issue, that have been making you sad and worry about your progress. This situation could make you lack the drive or concentration to achieve your personal goals. You had just no power to continue.
The problem you have been experiencing is related to leadership - either you are under someone who is dominating, rash and impulsive, draining your whole energy or you are this kind of person to others, because of your emotional state right now.
You are aiming for finding balance in this situation and looking for the most efficient way to manage. Deep down, your real goal is to get rid off the control you have been forced to take in your situation, you want to find release. Some of you could want to get rid of the abusive people, authorities in your life. Maybe even abuse them back. Just to connect with the world anew and find completion.
Your environment invites you to choose among many possibilities you have. It may be a good time for growth and taking difficult projects. You can focus on improving your financial situation first. Plan the most important tasks. It's also a good time to meet any kind of new acquaintances. You may fear injustified judgement from others and being forced in an unknown situations. Be brave!
Take a moment to pause and reflect to gain mental clarity over your situation. Take a step back, taking more cold-headed approach and communicate clearly what you want for yourself.
