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[lucysweatslove-old]

tea-oats replied to your post “tea-oats replied to your post “NOT judging at all, but I’m actually...”

Exactly, it got to the point where I unfollowed all of the blogs that posted it-- this was even before I knew what a trigger was!! I am completely in support of your no-spo, because I only follow healthy blogs without it subconciously! 10/10! <3

10/10. Much quality. Very support. Such good. Wow. :)  (i'm so sorry i just. it's late)

[lucysweatslove-old]

tea-oats replied to your post “NOT judging at all, but I'm actually curious”

I definitely used to use those photos as "oh my god I must be them" and I thought that was healthy to motivate me, but all it did was bring forward disordered thinking. I didn't realize that I was avoiding bodyspo on my blog until your post!

I didn't even know other people avoided it really until I started being really impacted by it and made some "urg I'm so frustrated!!!" posts... Realized that a LOT of people actually avoid it and wished they could find more blogs without a lot of bodyspo on it, which is what inspired the post (actually I wanted to do the post primarily for the promo- so that people understood what it was that I was trying to avoid). I'm all fine with people who want to post bodies, but I get concerned when people post only one type of body for motivation to look like that because to me, it was always unhealthy, and it probably always will be.

[lucysweatslove-old]

11 questions thingy!! I was tagged by myusshi and runeatsleepstudydream Rule 1: Post the rules. Rule 2: Answer the questions you were tagged on and make 11 new ones. Rule 3: Tag 11 new people and link them to your post. Rule 4: Let them know you’ve tagged them My questions for those tagged (if you've already done one feel free not to keep doing them, it's so hard to find people to tag imo)

Are you comfortable working out around other people? Family members?

Do you feel supported by your family?

How would you rate your mental health?

Do you believe that showing love and kindness to other people is as important as showing love and kindness to yourself?

Did you learn to love something about yourself you previously didn't? If so, what?

If somebody who was mead or rude to you was crying and obviously very upset, what you do?

What artistic abilities to you posses? Performing arts or fine arts :)

Are you spiritual? How does that effect your health?

Do you like to burn candles or melt scented wax?

Do you prefer to wear make up or go au naturale?

What has been the hardest part of you life so far? How have you grown into a better person ffrom it?

My answers under the read more

From runeastleepstudydream:

What are three words you would use to describe your blog? Loving, healthy, rawr

Who is your favorite family member? Why? Can I say my boyfriend who is not yet part of my actual legal family? No? Probably my little sister. I wouldn't be here without her.

What made you smile today? Seeing people on here be inspired to change to a healthblr.

Where do you want to visit before you die? Everywhere. I'd be content with Japan and Europe and Egypt though.

What was the most exciting part of New Years? I ran a little no-bodyspo promo that I was excited about...

What is your biggest goal for 2014? I want to stop binge eating, overcome my fears of working out around people, do a handstand...

How old are you going to be this year? 20 on April 21 :)

Did you have an imaginary friend when you were little? I pretended to so I wouldn't have to sit by my sister in the car.

What was the last dream you remember about? I was playing with / studying copper compounds. The blue colors were gorgeous.

Do you have any pets? If so, what are their names? Too many. We have two Aussies named Beezy and Roary (Aurora, like Sleeping Beauty). A giant furball Malamute/Pyranese mix named Mac. A pug who is getting very old named Cinnamon Sugar Spice. A boston terrier who is almost 1 named Peppermint Patty Piper. Two persian cats named Elsie (Ella) and Leopold (Leo the Lion). Four parakeets (our original two had babies)

Favorite tradition of the holidays? Santa

From myusshi

Was 2013 a good year for you? Not really. Things have been good with Rob and moving out from living with my sister, but I developed anxiety around school work, lost a grandmother, lost a few family friends, had other personal losses...  But I'm glad it wasn't any worse.

What’s your favourite meal?  SUSHI.

Running or lifting? Lifting, tho I want to get into running.

How many roads must a man walk down before you can call him a man? Maybe she's really a woman. I think maturity has more to do with who is a man/woman instead of a boy/girl, not age or "life experiences."

Tea or coffee? Decaf tea. I don't do caffeine.

What is your current occupation? Student.

What is your dream career? Medical researcher.

What is your favourite book? Harry Potter.

Spring or autumn? After the winter, I prefer spring. After summer, autumn. 

What would you grab first if your house was on fire? Assuming all other life would be able to get out? Probably my stuffed duck and badger. I can't replace those.

What item of clothing would you say defines you? I go through phases. I guess atm I'm on a weird-legging kick, so probably my muscle leggings.

That was a lot!

[lucysweatslove-old]

tea-oats replied to your post “tea-oats answered to your post “Somebody come recommend newish songs...”

And his live stuff is JUST as good (if not better) than his albums. And he has realllly good songs, listen to 'Fragile bird' and 'Body in a Box' b/c great lyrics. <3

Fragile Bird sounds SO different from The Girl. Not bad different but obviously the sound is just very versatile. It's kind of dark- not a bad thing- but holy shit. You are my favorite right now because this is like everything I love.

[lucysweatslove-old]

tea-oats answered to your post “Somebody come recommend newish songs for me to listen to?”

Listen to some City and Colour; his voice is so lovely and addictive and he just sings about the sweetest things. 'Coming Home', 'the girl'.

Awww I really like this! I listened to The Girl and it really is just so sweet!!