I watched the second season of OFMD on an airplane before seeing the first season. I knew from that first dream sequence that it wasn’t like all the other shows. But a moment that really jumped out at me was in the second episode when Zheng says, “how should I put this, your energy is…” and Olu immediately offers “tender?” with Roach jumping in, “we’re tender as hell” (with the eyes of a madman btw). And the joke wasn’t self-deprecating like it would be on almost any other show. In fact, it wasn’t even a joke. Just a fact. And a point of pride! You can see it from Olu’s smile and Stede’s pleased, “hmm!” I didn’t realize how much it would mean to me to see a tv show chisel away at toxic masculinity episode by episode but it’s certainly part of why this show took hold of me.
















