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Title: When “No” Isn’t an Option: Advocating for My Son’s IEP There’s a moment in my journey as a parent that still makes me angry to this day. Not because it was confusing. Not because I didn’t understand the system. But because I did. When my husband was stationed in Korea, I moved our family to Killeen on my own. We were transferring from Katy, Texas, and like so many military families, I was navigating everything—new home, new city, new school—by myself. My son was in elementary school at the time. He had an IEP. He was receiving services. He was nonverbal. And like many children with significant needs, his support included: Speech Therapy Occupational Therapy Physical Therapy This wasn’t new. This wasn’t unclear. This was already established. The Meeting That Should Have Been Simple I went into the transfer ARD meeting expecting continuity. Instead, I was told: “We don’t think he needs speech therapy.” I remember just sitting there for a second. Trying to process what I had just heard. My son—who could not speak… My son—who was in a life skills classroom… …didn’t qualify for speech therapy? I said, “No. I don’t agree.” Round Two We came back for another meeting. Again, I was told: “We still don’t think he qualifies for speech.” At that point, it wasn’t just frustrating—it was unbelievable. I said it again: “No. I do not agree.” Then What Most Special Needs Parent Go Through "Let’s Make a Deal?" Then came the part that still doesn’t sit right with me and still makes me mad just thinking about it. “Well… what if we give him one day a week in a group?” The ummm Let's Make A Deal Phase. Like my child’s needs were negotiable. Like this was something to compromise on. I remember thinking: We are not playing ‘Let’s Make a Deal’ with my son’s future. I said No..... then another how about this.... Again I said No....I am not signing... I am not agreeing And Then… Everything Changed We took a recess. When we came back, the head of speech services was at the table. We sat down. And suddenly— The IEP was honored. Speech therapy was included. No pushback. No negotiation. Just like that. So What Changed? That’s the question that has stayed with me all these years. Because it wasn’t my child’s needs. Those never changed. What changed… was who was in the room. This is the Reality for Many Military Families How many military families go through this exact situation when they relocate? New duty station. New school. New team. And suddenly, services that were once clearly needed are questioned, reduced, or delayed. Not because the child changed. But because the system did. And too often, families are left feeling like they have to: Fight Prove Negotiate Just to get their child what they already had. This Shouldn’t Be the Standard Let me be clear: IEPs are not suggestions. They are not starting points for negotiation. They are legal documents built around a child’s needs. And honoring them shouldn’t depend on: Who speaks up Who pushes back Or who is sitting at the table Why This Still Matters This experience shaped how I advocate today. It taught me: To stand firm—even when it’s uncomfortable To understand my rights—and use them And to never treat my child’s needs as negotiable Because too many families don’t know they can say: “I do not agree.” If you are a parent navigating the IEP process: Know this—your voice matters. You are allowed to ask questions. You are allowed to push back. And you are absolutely allowed to say no. And if you are part of a school team: Remember—families are not your opposition. They are your partners. And every decision you make impacts a child’s future. Because no parent should ever feel like they have to “make a deal” to get their child what they need.

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Texas All Abilities Network is excited to partner with Girl Scouts of Central Texas to bring our community Adaptive Playdates — a welcoming space for connection, play, and friendship. Who’s invited? Neurodivergent and special needs children preschool age and older who want to make friends, practice social skills, and enjoy playtime with others in an inclusive, supportive environment. Moms & caregivers — are you looking for your tribe? Want to connect with others who truly understand? Need a little community (and a bit of respite) while the kiddos play? You’re not alone — this space is for you too. Starting in March 4th Tuesday of every month March 24th 10:00 AM – 12:00 PM Location: Girl Scouts of Central Texas – Killeen Office 2909 Lake Rd, Killeen, TX 76543 Registration is required to ensure we have the right space and materials for everyone. Come play, connect, and build community with us — where all abilities are welcome and every family belongs.

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Event in Killeen, TX by Texas All Abilities Network on Tuesday, March 24 2026

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Event in Killeen, TX by Texas All Abilities Network and 2 others on Saturday, April 18 2026

Community Sponsors help make this event possible by supporting inclusive spaces where families can connect, access resources, and feel welcomed. We appreciate your partnership in strengthening our community. Walk. Connect. Belong.

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This is a free, sensory-friendly event designed for connection, creativity, and inclusion. Younger siblings are welcome to attend and stay in the parent area. Parents of minors must remain on site.