#textfight

[margaridafernandes-blog]

Community Post: Everyones Thoughts During A Text Fight

You can now confront someone while simultaneously avoiding their being; Texting, oh the glory of the 21st century.

Everything’s going well, you’re having a joke. ... Wait. What? Was that not a joke? Fuck, why is tone such a bitch over text. WHY DON’T WE CALL PEOPLE ANYMORE?!

This is what being a millennial is all about; brace yourselves, you’re in a text fight - and it can drag on for daaaays.

[behavioralanthropology]

What a mean girls text-fight looks like. Courtesy of me and my buds.

T: It's not my fault im so popular

Me: ur goin down gretchen weiner

T: You know my father, the inventor of toaster strudel, wouldnt like that.

me: you cant sit with us!

t: Boo you whore!

me: I guess you just like the attention

me: watch where you're going fatass.

t: ugh you think youre so perfect. Do you know youre a jungle freak who's a less hot version of me.

t: You're a pusher.

me: theres a 30 percent chance that its already raining **it was raining***

t: omg its danny devito i love your work!

me: ur almost too gay to function lol

t: do you want us to assign someone to butter your muffin

me: its not my fault youre like in love with me or something!!!

t: oh wait, its her dream jumping into a pile of girls!

t: oh no she didnt, see thats the problem with you plastics you think everyone is in love with you but really every one hates you

t: I want my pink shirt back!!!

me: you are a mean girl! you are a bitch!!

me: suck on that!

t: I will keep you here all night

t: i will keep you here until four o clock

[gmilii]

This right here is why I don't want to get in a relationship again

This is what I am dealing with. My ex is being a vindictive controlling ass. In the past week I have been to the hospital for my surgery and then I was rushed back twice due to complications during recovery. The doctor has me on bed rest until Monday. All I am trying to do is get what is rightfully mine. You would think that he would have some kind of heart and would be willing to do one nice thing, but as you will read, thats not going to happen.

Me: Kory, I am so  disappointed in you right now. It really makes me sick to realize that you don't respect me at all. I asked you to give me my stuff back before my surgery and now it is a week past from that and I still don't have my stuff back. I asked you to come and see me while I was recovering and you completely ignored that. It's really sad that some of your friends have been checking up on me every day to see how I have been doing. They offered to come and see me. But my own ex who wants to be friends doesn't even offer to come over and see how I am doing. That really shows how little you ever cared about me. The last thing is I asked you out of respect to delete Allora, you said that you would and guess what you are still friends with her. Seriously, you are now being vindictive since it has been quite a few days now. All I want is my stuff back, that includes: my toothbrush, my brush, my body spray, my Vikings shirt, all of my tupperware washed and the money you owe me. Also I would like Calista's liquor too. I am just asking for my stuff back.

Kory: Fine, whatever you say

Me: So when are you going to bring my stuff over?

Kory: Bring? You will have to wait until I have the time to get to you. Both of my jobs have gotten more busy. Creating less time for me to do much of anything. But if u come up to my house I can have my sis give u it all but first I'd have to get it all collected together

Me: Yes I said bring. You can can BRING me my stuff and you can do it this weekend. I am not driving up to you, I always had to do the driving and now that we aren't in a relationship and I am not constantly bending over backwards for you. You can drive to me, you can finally do something for me. I am also on bed rest and I can't drive.

Me (the next morning): Will you just answer my question about what day this weekend you are bringing my stuff and Calista's liquor over.

Kory:Neither days :) and u do bring up a great point. We aren't in a relationship anymore. I don't not have to bring you YOUR stuff. Because it is YOUR stuff. So u can be a responsible little girl and come get your stuff. :) You know I really did want to make this civil and try to be friends with you but ur making it difficult for me to even be nice to you.

Me: *trys to call him* *no answer*

Kory: I'm not answering right now I had a long day at work goodnight

Me: Excuse you? No you are the one who is being rude. It is always on your time, you have never been considerate of other peoples times. I am standing up for myself which I should have did a long time ago. I let you walk all over me and you got whatever you wanted. And the few times that you didn't you would try and make me feel like I was being a bad person. Cory you are 25 and you are acting like a teenager. You really need to look at how you treat people. I was your girlfriend and you had absolutely no respect for me and I do not believe that you cared for me. When we were dating and I told you that most of my money was stolen from my bank account, you didn't offer to pay me the money you owe me back. Thats sad, you actually seamed to careless. Yet when that happened to you, the first thing I did was ask if you needed any money. Right now I am on bed rest by doctors orders, thus meaning I can't leave my bed. The nice thing to do would be for you to drive and give me my stuff and my money back. If you really wanted to try and be friends you would have deleted Allora like you said you would. Remember out of respect? Also you would have tried to see me after my surgery, like a friend would do. You would have asked how I was doing after I was rushed to the hospital twice. But you didn't, because you don't care. I really do believe that you never did, I bent over backwards for you and everyone knew how crazy I was about you. And everyone would ask my why I was with you, when you treated me with no respect and how you talked to me.

Kory: There is a big difference between not doing anything and walking all over you. I just didn't do anything. I'm Sorry but you just had really high expectations. I have a 2 jobs. I'm sorry I couldn't be 21 with you.

Me: I was never asking you to be 21 with me, all I was asking was for you to care and treat me like an equal. All I wanted was a boyfriend who I could have a fun time with staying in, making food and watching movies or playing games with. But that never happened and it will never happen. All you see me is a dumb party girl. I mean those were you exact words right? Once again you are not taking any fault and you don't see how you did anything wrong. God Cory, do something nice for me, for one time. That is all I am asking. Just bring me my stuff while I am recovering from surgery. I am just asking for you to be a descent person. I really didn't think that would be to much to ask. I mean when you were sick with a little cold I went out of my way to bring you over homemade cookies and a huge get well soon package, because I knew seeing you get excited by the thought that some cared so much about you to put all the personal little touches. When I saw your face that made everything that we fought about the day before seem so silly and so stupid. Because I thought in that moment maybe he finally sees how much I really like, how much I thought things could work between us. I really thought maybe, just maybe you would start to care about me way I cared about you. That you could possibly be starting to fall for me, like I was falling for you. But you weren't because one week later, out of the blue you decided that you didm't want this anymore. You didn't want to be in a relationship with a girl who bent over backwards for you, who did anything you asked her to do. Because once again this was on your time, and this wasn't convenient for you anymore. So we broke up and now I am on bed rest after having a two surgeries and having to be rushed to the hospital twice due to complication and you want me to drive up to you to get my stuff? Do you not hear how messed up that sounds? Just be a good person and bring me my stuff. Someone who actually would be trying to stay friends would bring their friend their stuff.

*next morning*

Kory: Why were u in the hospital and why are u on bed rest? Did u get an infection?

Kory: Are u okay most of all?

Kory: Wait I just re

Read

This and I missed this's at night! U had 2 surgeries?? Wtf happen? Gabby texte once In a while

Me: Don't act like this is some surprise, I told you that I went to the hospital, I even asked you to come over and see me. "And you said sorry I was sleeping" go look at the texts from Saturday morning around midnight till two am. When I really needed you. I did get an infection, I was also dehydrated, throwing up blood and I was wasn't able to breath. This is stuff that you should have known. Because like I said if you even cared about me you would have asked how I was doing, or you would have looked on my Facebook and seen the two check ins about me in the hospital.

Me: And your last text didn't make any sense.

Kory: Dude don't guilt trip me Gabby I was trying to get space from you I wanted nothing to do with you for a couple of weeks. So I'm sorry I come to you as a shock that I have no idea what happen.

Kory: I'm fucking concerned that's what my last text said.

Me: Do not call me dude. If you are so fucking concerned about me maybe you should checked up on me after my surgery like a friend would. Especially since you wanted to be friends, regardless of the fact that we broke up and you wanted all your fucking space, it's called being a good person and checking up on someone who had two surgeries. Some of your friends had no problem texting me every day seeing how I was doing. They even asked if I needed anything. Jesus you didn't even do that, do you know how much that broke my heart.

Me: And why did you need space? As I recalled I was the one who tried to make plans with you for the last week of us dating and you kept blowing them off so you could hang out with the boys and go out to some gay club. When you knew I wanted to see you, when I made your best friend two birthday cakes, plus I made you something that night too but it all goes back to the fact that you NEVER cared. I'm not guilt tripping you, I'm just showing you how you acted. So I'm asking you one last time. Will you please bring my stuff over this weekend?

Kory: I am sorry I cannot this weekend. Lol I am working a double and I'm extremely sick with the cold/flue

Me: Seriously? Why would you be working if you are extremely sick?

Kory: Because it called politics

Me: Do you mean policies? Haha. No it's called being inconsiderate and only thinking about yourself. If your sick you shouldn't be going to work, especially if you are touching people good and drinks

Kory: Keep it up gabby ill have my parent handle this if I keep Harassing me

Me: Really Cory? How old are you that you have to get your parents involved? I just want my stuff and the money you owe me back.

Kory: I will have time to take u ur stuff on Thursday for you

Me: What time do you think you will be at my pace?

Me: *next day* Will you please tell me when you will be here on Thursday? I don't want to be waiting around all day for you.

Kory: *Hmmm I'm not going to respond to you because I just love to make your life difficult while I still am able to* [note he didn't say that, but he still hasn't replied to when he is going to be here. Other note his name is really Cory, he just changed the spelling to Kory. So when I was really mad trying to prove points I used the real spelling]