#that split thing

[geek-royalty]

Where I really shouldn't have snorted at that divorce comment on fb, but I did; or when art and rl blur just that little bit too much to the point of evil irony 😈

[okoyespeare-blog]

Lol why is it whenever I ever hear of Amanda in the media saying *something* about her relationship with Martin, as if she's doing her own brand of public therapy, I end up requiring meditation to calm down?

[geek-royalty]

Oh sorry I thought this was a blog about Martin and Amanda and their personal lives, since your posts discussing and speculating about who they were dating is what came up in search. *shrug*

From recollection I’ve had one ask about Amanda’s remarks and whether they were seeing other people. And even that I managed to stuff up as I couldn’t actually recall what exactly Amanda had said and when…because I don’t really care that much about what she has to say about anything, so was fuzzy on the details and got corrected about it. So that would be two asks, none of which go into specifics about who they’re dating.

If you checked out the rest of my blog you might have noticed that their personal lives have barely been a topic of mention on here since the split. Stuff relating to Martin’s acting and career, sure. Not much else besides though, and certainly nothing at all to do with Amanda herself *shrugs*

[geek-royalty]

Found your blog searching the Amanda tag, and the article from March. Idk about Martin but Amanda and Jonjo have both been fairly open on their social media and his radio show about their relationship (they went to a crime museum the other day) and it appears they met in rehearsals for the Bash late last year and have been dating around six-seven months. It's sweet they've managed to find happiness off of both having had recent sadness, and Jonjo is so, so lovely.

Um, thanks anon for the info…I guess *shrugs* Although tbh I’m not that interested in knowing what Amanda’s up to in her personal life, like good luck to her, but frankly I couldn’t really care less what her or Martin are doing with themselves on the dating front. It’s none of my business, and that’s why I’m not that oyfey or specific about the topic, at least not anymore. The rather cynical reveal of their split prior to s4 has also left a bit of a bitter taste in my mouth and basically strangled my motivation to give much of a shit. I enjoy Martin as an actor, and hope in a general sense that he’s happy in whatever he’s doing with his life, but beyond that I’d prefer to avoid discussing his personal affairs altogether. Hate to be cold about it, but that’s how I feel.

[geek-royalty]

"Ultimately it’s not my life, or even my business to be concerned about, it’s his." - exactly why i thinks it was kind of dumb to care about it lol. Maybe random is a better word then dumb. It might just be my personally to randomly wonder about stuff i dont need to. Theres this guy at work who's cat ran away months ago and never came back and when i see him i randomly wonder if he lonely without cat now. I dont loss sleep over it but its a good 30 seconds of caring lol -leelee

@leeleesun Yeah, random is a better word maybe :) I get what you mean though, I sometimes wonder at stuff with people too. It’s just my current headspace which has me not doing that as often as I used to, I guess :p

[geek-royalty]

Seeing pix and gif of martin in his old house kind of bums me out a little cause it looks so cozy and in the more recent pix he took from home u can see the difference. It's kind of dumb that I even care this much but I hope his new place is a little more homey by now. -leelee

@leeleesun I’m sure it is. Not that he seems to be spending heaps of time at home really…

It’s not dumb to care, not at all. But idk..after the initial shock of the announcement, and processing it, I’ve hit a point now where I’m pretty indifferent about the state of things and not particularly lamenting or missing what had come before. Ultimately it’s not my life, or even my business to be concerned about, it’s his. So I don’t think about this kind of stuff tbh.

[geek-royalty]

@mmmaxi someone asked an astrology blog to do up a synastry chart with Martin and Amanda to see if it could shed some light on potential conflicts that might have precipitated their split. Astrology is something that interests me, so I had a read, and it did provide some insights 👍

[geek-royalty]

Which article was that?

The Sun…if you either wish to entertain yourself or set fire to whatever device you’ve read it on. You’ll know it once you see the headline 😠