#thats it basically

[voidcrumbs]

I think I posted this already but it needs to be posted again

[liamisperfection]

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[phoebastria-albatrus]

ARE YOU OK??? omfg

doing ☝️ considerably better

[ispyspookymansion]

new years resolutions 2024

- draw every day even if its just doodles

- get back into singing

- do my mohawk every month

- engage in behaviors. not specifying which kinds

- watch at least a movie for each day of the year

- journal more often

- die badly(?)

[mournholdmushroom]

Yeah so a really key part of Ros and Anders' relationship is that they challenge and confront one another fairly regularly even though its a high approval romance still. For example Ros will listen to Anders read out some of his manifesto and will tell him if hes getting...too much, and he'll do the same to her if she overreacts to things because she can have a firey temper.

And that's where it goes wrong in Act 3 because Ros stops doing that. After losing her mother she only has Anders left and she can see him beginning to withdraw so doesn't want to push him away even more so she stops challenging him in the same way (which is also why she partly blames herself for what happens in the last straw).

And ultimately the time away during Inquisition is exactly what she needs because she tackles her fear of being left alone (and realises she never really is alone) and goes back to Anders wanting to have a more healthy relationship again where they can challenge one another in the way that they used to, rather than being so afraid of losing one another that they withdraw into themselves and push the other away.

[oopowoopo]

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this is probably about my friends story so that's what you'll get.

my friends katie and heidi asked me if i wanted to go down to a pier with them. me, katie, and heidi are always Up To No Good when we're around each other, and why anyone let's us around each other i will never know.

they decided to come over to my house before we left (we all live relatively close). heidi brought over hair dye and katie yeast. to make bread. i didn't ask for these things. but wHatEvEr.

heidi wanted us (me and katie) to dye her hair. katie wanted to make bread with us (me and heidi). we decided to make the dough for bread first then dye heidi's hair. nothing went relatively wrong when making the dough, for now.

we all went into my like maybe 3.5 ft by 2 ft bathroom. it's very small. it can barely hold one person, so how well do you think it did with three? um anyways me and katie stayed to dye heidi's hair.

guess what heidi forgot? gloves. now we're smurfs. heidi thought it would be a great idea if she helped dye her hair, without being able to see her hair. so she just slapped the hair dye on parts that had too much on. which was great.

while we're dyeing her hair, we start hearing like a pitter-patter, like the faucet was left on and it was just dripping. that kind of sound. so logically i checked if the shower and the faucet were on. they weren't, so i just went back to dyeing hair.

then the pitter-patter got louder and faster until suddenly the toilet just EXPLODES and there's water everywhere. everything's wet, there's a huge puddle on the floor, it was not a good time.

and we aren't even done dyeing heidi's hair!! but we ran out of hair dye (shockingly) so we couldn't finish. while i was cleaning up the water heidi was trying to rinse out her scrunchie that was completely blue.

since this is long enough i'm gonna skip over us waiting for the hair to dry. heidi cheats at monopoly but that's it. her hair dries then we go to the pier.

'but wait!! what about the bread?' i hear you asking. we forgot about it and it overproved. then we threw it away.

I Still Don't Know What Happened To The Toilet.

[serendipitous-magic]

What exactly is a bambi lesbian?

It’s an old term from the 80s (apparently) that I like and that I thought fit me well. Basically it means a lesbian that’s somewhere on the ace spectrum. So for me, my whole mouthful would be something along the lines of “homoromantic gray-asexual” cause I’m gay, mostly not really into sex but not fully ace. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[aboutmetamorphosis]

what do u think about this whole shirt mess?