(Rest up and feel better :c) But what would you do if say- you liked someone (in my case this guy), and it was pretty obvious they liked you back- so you became like BEST FRIENDS instantly. Then- your best friend of years is all 'oh wow i like him too' and 'dibs' so being the bigger person you say 'alright you can have him.' Now- whenever you try to even just be friendly with the guy- your friends gets all defensive and 'wow ok not cool you said i could have him'? What would you do?
oh man that sucks and I've been in a similar situation :/ who's friendship is more important to you? You shouldn't have to choose, but if this friend is so busy being jealous to see you and the guy are just friends, you're obviously not their number one priority anymore. I managed to convince my friend I cared about her way too much to try to steal our mutual friend/crush. she was still touchy for a long time and hypersensitive about me being with him, but she's calmed down significantly.