theafroqueerizedbeekeeper replied to your post: TW: Rape
this ask was about the consent, power, drugs and rape. they gave context—they’re in a marriage, there are drugs involved, they feel like they are being raped. the response was a dodge. “don’t do it” isn’t enough. it’s like saying “don’t get raped”
I didn't say just "don't do it". I said that it wasn't right for her husband to manipulate her and that because of that she shouldn't feel pressured to do sexual activity that she wasn't comfortable. I said that she needed to talk seriously and in depth with her husband (as some people truly don't know that their behaviour is wrong and invasive) and if he still persists either see a professional to help her husband understand if she wants to continue the relationship or leave him. I definitely don't condone the "don't get raped" message our culture (a rape culture) persists to tell people. What would a better response have been?
