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How to act in front of your celebrity (crush) ୨ৎ

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(so you can have a wattpad story)

Making this post while having an HUGE ego so I am the best person to give you advice. I don't get impressed easily, especially in front of people (men) so yeah

(STOP this is the kind of post I like to write the most !)

(pair this post with how to be a WAG)

Let’s go

Okay. It's going to be quick I am pretty sure you already know.

There’s some prerequisites, but I consider that you read my post on how to be a wag. To not reiterate I would say

Be outstanding ⋆˚꩜｡ but not in a way that scream ❝ I am not like everybody❞ When you want to talk to someone, it’s obvious. People can feel it. And since everybody wants to talk to them, they know and recognize someone who plays calm but still want their attention. They know it.

You have to be outstanding like he wants to be a part of your own world, not YOU being a part of his life. Actually this person should not feel you want them. It should be natural, a tension is okay.

Example

When a man at the university library looks at you, you feel it right ? yup this the same.

(real experience I had this week ugh I just wanted to laugh but he'll think I am embarrassed = he won and NO)

Everything is energy. You can easily feel when someone is eager for you. So if you know everything about your crush it'll be felt. So try to not be too obvious when you meet him. We see everything in a couple of eye contacts. Men are usually confident to hold the gaze, so do you.

Treat him like a normal person ⋆˚꩜｡ : okay the most basic thing, but it depends if you’re a celebrity or not. Always treat him as a normal person, but if you are famous, it’s easy to be approached by him. In his pov it’s

❝Okay so this y/n…wow she looks good and seems interesting, I want to talk to her❞

If you have that aura, it’s going to be easy since you're magnetic (🤩) he’s going to be intrigued. Plus, you’re someone famous , it’s interesting to talk to others in this industry. It’s very normal even if it’s not for romantic purpose.

-> if you're outstanding, people will fight for your attention and he would want to win BUT

Be careful, men celebs tend to think they're the prize so he will think you'll come but you're not = intrigued or not, but most of the time, he will not resist, especially if you're interesting, which I am pretty sure your are.

If you’re not famous, it’s better for you to have someone who knows everyone. You know someone like that. (think about this video Travis Scott and Kylie Jenner at the met gala lol)

❝Hey, so this is my friend y/n she's bla bla❞

Don't really tell your friend you have a crush on him even if she helps you, she would look at you like 😏 and he'll understand. Men aren't dumb about things like that. He'll be in a ❝superior position❞ and since he knows you love him, = he can act like he want and be like 😏 too. There’s an imbalance. Just say ❝I never talk to him, do you know him ?❞

(No shade to your friends but it's inevitable they don't look like 😏 when they'll see your crush)

Easy okay ? the first step need to be smooth.

(can't believe I used this freaky emoji three times lol but it's the perfect one for illustrate this )

As I said in my post about how to being a wag, events, fashion week, ceremonies are like the birthday party in your high school. In a high school birthday, you meet people of your school so y’all are the same. In those events, this is the same. Everybody speaks with everybody.

The real question is how to keep the conversation ?

I take the events universe because it's usually like that you'll meet him, if you don't work in those areas.

Okay so y'all are talking, it's easier to be honest but not too honest. You say you know him and his craft BUT

Obviously you don't say

❝OMG ❝idk❞ I love all your work you're my favorite star 😍😍❞.

NO you're not simping, otherwise it's game over. everybody acts like that to him. You never do that !!!!!

You say something like

❝yes I know you, love your work you're quite good❞

I mean, you say something you really think, but not too much like a fan would do. Just. Normal. Indifferent, composed, even if to you he's the best in his field.

Y'all can talk about everything but you should not be stressed. Why would you ? It should be smooth, like I said. If he's really interested by you, he will keep the conversation.

-> Perfect moment to see if you really match with him. Okay he's your celebrity crush but you don't wanna close your eyes on a bad behavior + your own standards. You need to be real and to be like okay ❝this man is good for me or not ?❞ -> A fan would close their eyes but not YOU

-> If you dare to do it, he'll be act nonchalant and seeing you as someone down bad. Perfect way to not respect you.

-> don't act blind, celebrity can be the worst people you'll ever seen and obviously men are on the top for this.

Yes, even your favorite kpop idols, especially them. You don't know them behind closed doors, even if they act a certain way publicly.

Do not be too available to him. Don't say yes to everything he say, if you don't agree, say your vision. Again, you inspect how he reacts to your opinion.

Does he get hurt in his ego ?

Does he try to understand ?

I really emphasize this inspection phase because it's at that moment people make mistakes.

Don't worry, he's analysing you too. He's looking for clues, if you're only here for the fame, his money especially if you're not famous. If your not impressed. It’s about facts they’re factual so do not act like someone who needs to prove something or if you’re stressed. Why would you be stressed ? He’s normal

-> You'll know if he's really into you.

My opinion about the type of your celebrity crush

This is the moment I've been waiting for. Judging men. I didn't date them, this is just my personal observation.

Athletes ⋆˚꩜｡ it depends of the type of the type of sports he plays. Most football players are womanizers. I don't recommend it, but if you want to built something real, if it's really serious, make sure he knows the woman in front of him. You don't play, him either, only on the field though.

Racing drivers ⋆˚꩜｡ this is a closed world. if you're not into this, chances are very low to see him. If you have a friend who works in this area it's possible but most of the time, racing drivers come from wealth so if you don't have the codes, chances are low. But usually they think about their image more than anything so if you date him it should be okay.

Idols ⋆˚꩜｡ I smell y'all like kpop idols. Those are the most trickiest people to date because they have that perfect image. It would be heavily difficult to date them since they have a controlled life, obsessive fans, crazy stalkers. Obsessive fans mean that if this idol beat you up, even if you say it, nobody and I say nobody will be on your side. Their fans are going to defend HIM not you. You think I am done ? NO.

-> Even after your break up, their fans are going to assimilate YOU to HIM and would say it's your fault. Dating an idol (especially if your not famous) is dangerous, do everything to have a plan if a break up happens. With those men you really have to be careful.

(damn that was long, I could even go deeper if you want. My biggest fear is a woman (fan) who gets involved with an idol and he makes her life a hell. I am so afraid of that ugh)

Singer ⋆˚꩜｡ regular men but full of themselves most of the time (depends if he’s popular or not). He will take you as his muse. He would talk about you in his songs (for free) so make sure to get everything you need in return idc. Crazy fans, edits of you two so make sure to love yourself lol.

Actors ⋆˚꩜｡ more prestigious than the other categories since it's also a closed world. If you're famous with him, it's easy and if you're not you'll be in the shadows so perfect, unless you want to be famous.

The key is to be outstanding and in your own world, so that he would want to be a part of it. This is not very different of a regular crush, but I don't know why women are so dumb when they meet their celebrity crush, I am sorry. I mean, if I had a celebrity crush I'll see if we can be something. By acting like a simp, you ain't going nowhere lol he would see you as crazy. Really. You're like the others = not outstanding.

I don't know why there's this phenomenon where women shows on social media the celebrity who DMed them ??

They're like ❝omg idk is in my dm❞ with a full proof.

NO. if you fav send you a message and you see it's truly him don't show it off, it's useless. Damn it. Be clever. I don't care lol. You want to live a wattpad story yes or no ?

With this type of man you'll never know but at least you know how to get them.

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The End. God when I tell you I am tired of seeing these girls not being smart. Girl ???????? I don't know it was with who, I think it was with a rapper or maybe Jungkook, during his solo era I don't know.

Do not be like them, if you have a celebrity crush and you know it would match don't flex but give him a chance. Well, if you read my post I am pretty sure you'r not that dumb because I watch you in every move you make 🫵.

No because I am writing this shocked like ? You should like ❝okay this is like in wattpad but I have to be smart❞.

Like I said in the beginning of this post, I am not easily that impressed by people. I already met celebrities at festivals/concerts. It's something the first time you see them but after it's normal.

Stray kids were the first I met in a festival on the scene. (I used to work in those environments) I was shocked like. They were so beautiful in the real life. Blew my mind, but at the end I was like okay.

Promise you when it's men you'll not catching screaming a long time. I take a chair and rest a little bit lol. I also really like to appreciate a performance. It's so tiring to scream lol. I also saw Twice and Blackpink and it was the same. Sometimes I'll be sitting on my chair lol. I realize I get drained really easily in those places but thankfully I am aware to see it.

Also in my head I'll be like ❝why I am acting like that lol.❞ I hope you don't see me as that serious I am not (a little bit) I love seeing artists performing their art but I can't scream for you like a real fan.

For example, when there is some fan service or when an idol shows his abs y'all don't know how it pisses me off. Because in my head I am like ❝you need this to do this make me scream ?❞ NO I will not scream.

Maybe because I don't see myself showing some part of my body purposely to make my fans screams like that.

I don't think I would date a celebrity if I am not famous. I don't want him to be the only star. I don't even talk about his crazy fans who think they're going to end up with him. I mean, even if I am famous, this would happen but if I am not famous, I don't know if I'll be able to hold my mental health. Being followed, stalking, means comments are draining at some points. But if I am famous, since I'll already have the mindset for that, I don't think it would be that draining.

And if it's a kpop idol ain't no way. He has to be everything I’ve dreamed of, otherwise it's over. Kpop fans are too intrusive. Them omg. Edits every two minutes for something random + pics from everywhere. Stop.

But if I do, I would like to date a singer. I love to create and see how a song is being produced, so being in the backstage of his art fascinates me. I am afraid in sport what if he gets hurt ?

If I date an celeb I'll tell you here, on my blog. Mark my words lol.

But yeah, if you come across your celebrity crush, you'll know to act. Imagine you say to your kids ❝he was my celebrity crush but you know how irresistible your mom is❞

They'll be like 🤩

Enough for this post or I would keep writing.

I love you wherever you are

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Classroom

or when I turn into a siren teacher to educate yourself on every aspects of your life because I am tired of seeing people not being at their full potential

About yourself

ꨄ︎ How to have an aura

ꨄ︎ How to love yourself

ꨄ︎ How to get beauty privilege

ꨄ︎ How to learn a language

ꨄ︎ How to have self esteem

ꨄ︎ How to be a Wag

ꨄ︎ How to be glamorous

ꨄ︎ How to be cool

ꨄ︎ How to have discernment

ꨄ︎ How to be eloquent

ꨄ︎ How to have a good circle

ꨄ︎ How to create a personal brand

ꨄ︎ How to seduce men (yes)

ꨄ︎ How to not care about other people think of you

ꨄ︎ How to be a muse

ꨄ︎ How to be a siren : based on the art of the seduction

About others

ꨄ︎ How to not be eaten by men

ꨄ︎ How to understand men

ꨄ︎ How to act in front of your celebrity crush

How to be like series

ꨄ︎ How to be like Boa Hancock

ꨄ︎ How to be like Nico Robin

ꨄ︎ How to seduce like Lee La-el

ꨄ︎ How to be like Yumeko Jabami

ꨄ︎ How to be like Athena

ꨄ︎ How to be like Aphrodite

ꨄ︎ How to be like Kozuki Hiyori

ꨄ︎ How to be like Jennie

ꨄ︎ How to be like Jungkook

ꨄ︎ How to be like Kali Uchis

Lessons

ꨄ︎ What 2024 taught me

ꨄ︎ My 2025 lessons for you

Which room you want to visit now ?

The bathroom when I share all beauty things related ? the dressing to know how to dress yourself ? my bookshelf to become more intelligent ? Facts about me ??

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Are you ready for this ?

Welcome to my humble manor. I am your host, theamazingmuse.

(all the work belongs to me, do not copies or translate or idk what. (Thank you!))

Congratulations actually. You just found a pretty unique place to evolve.

facts about me:

In my early twenties + love giving advice + love reading

Now let's start the visit

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Dressing Sick bay Garden

It's better for you to start with the classroom

This blog is for people who want to evolve, to exude an aura like a calm confidence that can't be ignored, an antagonist.

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I didn’t miss exam period it’s so lame my finals exams are next Tuesday and Thursday I didn’t even start those study sessions

(Hope you’re doing okay ❤️)

I’ll be back soon of course 🫡

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I can’t with law school I want to dropout so bad but I can’t anymore

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Your username

Just wanted to say that y’all have pretty username. I said that because I see who’s liking my posts. When I get a notification and see your username I am like “that’s so cool”. Most of these unique username are my subscribers (yes I see you 👀 ) so I am glad y’all are unique.

I use tumblr like a twitter account without men, so don’t worry if you see some thoughts like this . These thoughts are fun lol

Hope you weren’t afraid when you saw the title entitled Your username 🫵

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Should you buy these products ?

(double update hehe)

My skin barrier is damaged, so I decided to share with you some products and tell you if should buy them or not. I also share with you the products I use since it starts to disappear

Skincare

For reference I have combo skin (oily on the T zone and dry on the cheekbones)

I have never met any problems on my skin. When I woke up I saw these pimples I was like ??? I didn't understand. Then I started to notice that I used vitamin C. Like I said, I never have any problem. It's been a long time since I haven't used this vitamin C, yes but ???

Update: it was because of my pms, omg. I am writing this with clear skin. It's gone gone.

But anyways, let's go.

Micellar water - I use this one. My friend suspect this because it contains glycolic acid. She thinks it's that makeup remover that made me break out. This is my fav ! I used to use this everyday at college. Nothing. The funniest thing is that I bought another bottle. It’s exfoliating. If you have a sensitive skin, do not buy this.

Skin 1004 cleanser + oil - yesssssssss. My product are mostly Korean skincare. This water based cleanser is so good. God. Lasts for so long. I only use the oil only when I wear makeup. Very good. Make sure to put the oil on you face, rub it THEN put water and rub then rinse everything. Oil before the water based cleanser

Cicaplast la Roche posay - yesss omg my holy grail, it's saving me right now. I was skeptical at first because I saw it everywhere on tiktok and I am always afraid of this. I don't know if I am a powerful manifestor or it's just the product, but yes, it's saving me. It's not a moisturizer. You should apply it like a mask, a little bit thick on your face. If you see a kinda white cast, whatever your skin color is, it's normal . 2 times a day.

Update: great, it helped me.

Laneige sleeping mask ꨄ no. Vaseline does the job. It lasts long though. At first you think it’s good but after it's just regular. Save your money. Bought it three year ago and it's here in front of me while writing this😂

Cosrx cream ꨄ no no no. I wanted to like this product so bad. omg. I love their snail serum so I bought the cream but...just no. I really wanted to like this product. Never again. Does nothing.

Medicube deep vita C ꨄ YESSS. OMG YES. VERY PRICEY BUT VERY GOOD. Does the work fr, never saw my skin this glowy. Clear skin. I take the capsule alone or that gelée mixture kinda when I want a primer for my makeup. Very good trust me. Contains vitamins C so put a suncream if you go outside. God. This cream .

Embryolisse ꨄ if you live in America I feel sad for you. It's expensive here. In Europe, it's cheaper. Primer for your makeup. I was using this before I get cicaplast for my skin. Wonderful. Trulyone the best cream ever, especially for the makeup. The best cream ever if there’s no fan of it I am dead

Medicube collagen serum ꨄ great, small bottle but contains a lot. Glowy skin I only apply this at night (before my skin barrier issue). Medicube is so good. It lasts more than I year and I use it every night.

Mask. If you can try this mask specifically try it. I recommend it to all my friends.

Makeup

Rare beauty foundation - normal foundation. I saw better like the one of Sephora. Yes. At the end, it’s not that great. Save your money. Will not buy it again. (I was in my rookie era I wanted to buy expensive product 😔)

Too faced born this ways concealer - very good ! Choose the right undertone. I am neutral. Choose right because it's expensive. Not too light. Really good.

setting powder Huda beauty - easy bake. Wonderful if you have the right shade. I took the wrong one AND not in small no, in BIG. I was a rookie in makeup. But I kinda make this up since my concealer is my perfect shade and not too clear so since the easy bake is clear it's perfect. Really good. Choose the right one, it's expensive. Don't be afraid to try the pink one or the purple one. I was afraid and these might be the right powder.

Benefit mascara ꨄ I bought the little one for Christmas and don't do that. The big mascara is great, but not the small package ! I have thin lashes so I need a good mascara and this one ? No. I can't take the big one it's a little bit too expensive for me for a mascara

Setting spray ꨄ superfix super hold makeup revolution is good ! Charlotte tilbury is a good one between step of the makeup. A good one. The one of Sephora is good and cheap, but nothing beats (a jet2holiday) the one size but I don't have it anymore because I am based in Europe and not in London.

Fenty gloss ꨄ good but the packaging was broken. I was shocked. Wonderful on the lips but the packaging ? I found gloss on my bag.

All things related to blush, mascara I buy them normally. It's the base and the setting spray that I care about. I don't spend a lot on blush and mascara. But if I have to buy a mascara it would be better than sex too faced doll lashes. Blushes would be makeup revolution

That's it. While I am writing this and my skin is good again. Cicaplast worked. It might be so hard for people who struggled with skin everyday 😔 hope you're well. Make sure to check the internal, not necessarily the food but how you feel and your thoughts.

It was definitely my period because now all of it is gone for real. This kind of breakout never happened to me. So it’s a glimpse of what pregnancy is ???? Omg

I love testing products I always want to find better. It’s like books, I want to read everything. And I will never trust the booktok again. I bought the mirror visitor and it’s slow. I bought the big version. Never again I read 200 pages ??? ( yes I have some hope) It’s slow I don’t know if you loved this book but I gave up.

It was a funny post, I just thought about it when my skin was doing crazy and I wanted to share some products with you

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