#thechicedit

[chicdairy]

I’m no longer chasing people who are unsure about me.

[chicdairy]

Soft reminder :

Your life doesn’t have to change overnight.

A few small choices repeated daily can change everything.

🤍

[chicdairy]

life is actually so short.

one day everything changes, seasons change, people change, we change.

so maybe I should stop waiting to become perfect before I start living the way i want 🌷

[chicdairy]

this summer feels different.

less chasing.

more becoming.

[chicdairy]

I didn’t become distant overnight.

The tone shifts. The inconsistency. The way effort slowly disappeared.

And instead of reacting,

I went quiet.

I just started noticing things I used to ignore.

Not to punish anyone,

but to protect the version of me

that no longer tolerates confusion disguised as love.There’s a version of me no one has access to anymore.

The one who overexplained.

The one who stayed too long.

The one who tried to be understood.

I buried her gently,

and became someone softer,

quieter,

and far more selective

[chicdairy]

currently trying to become the kind of woman that feels like jasmine tea, silk pajamas, expensive perfume and emotional stability

[chicdairy]

there’s power

in becoming quiet

[chicdairy]

it wasn’t love

it was the way I imagined it could be