The first week of June 2015 marked a very transformational period in my life that took me places that I had never been before. I quit my job at starbucks, I left the comfort of my hometown behind and I took a risk my heart begged for. I met a young lady that goes by the name of The Crystal Mama on instagram and is an internet personality who gives motivational words of love, sells crystals online and marches to the beat of her own drum. We both decided it would be a great idea for me to take the position as her assistant. She needed help running her business and I was looking for a more fulfilling job as well as adventure. For many weeks her and I shared a relatively peaceful harmonious relationship until the 3rd week of July when I first experienced her controlling nature.
We spent that weekend camping and dancing at tranformational music festival in Irvine by the name of Woogie Weekend. We danced, played and freed our souls. In the middle of it all I ran into a man who I had met weeks prior to the event at her boyfriends new home. His name was Peter and he was the owner of the house. Him and I hit it off once again and we danced and connected till I was pulled aside by her and told that I was “crossing boundaries” and being extremely disrespectful to her boyfriends new living situation. I backed off, told her it wasn’t fair but agreed with her that if I got her boyfriends consent I would be able to meet and play with Peter as I pleased.
Fast forward a month and half later to September 7th, the night of her birthday. We celebrated, had a fun time and met back her boyfriends house to celebrate a little while longer. There he was, Peter, making himself dinner in the kitchen as I greeted him for the first time in many weeks. Peter invited me to stay to watch movies and I was very pleased to stay. Mariya told me to go home soon to finish work though she did not know I had already finished what was asked to be done. Mariya went to bed and Peter and I stayed up, had our first kiss and spent the remainder of the night cuddling in his bed :). I woke up that morning with Mariya banging on Peters door and yelling my name. She asked to talk and told me to get the fuck out of her personal life.. the life which she invited me to about every day of us knowing each other. She took my car keys, drove off and wished me luck on getting a parking ticket. Peter stood up for me and brought it her attention that she didn't have the authority to kick his guest out of his own house (me) and asked her politely to give him a second to tell me bye.
I got my car keys, quit and drove off to school. Since then I’ve been staying at mutual friends house till I find myself a new place. Since then, I’ve been threatened numerous times by her to leave San Diego or else I would know what its like to “fuck” with a girl like her. She’s called me many names..she’s called me hoe, a backstabbing friend, a leach, a parasite and has told me numerous times to “watch myself” and if she ever ran into me in San Diego then she was really going to show me what happens when you “mess” with a girl like her”.
I think it’s so sad that so many people online (50.5k followers) look up to this individual as an example of love and peace when in actuality she is a bully and has threatened me many times in her life. I’m currently attending school in San Diego and have fallen in love with this city and its beautiful people and I will not let her control or dictate what I do with my life any longer. I just wish these people knew her truly colors and how ugly she has been towards me..