So, just because someone isn't your standards of Friendly it means they HAVE to be holding back, right? That they're totally scared of all of you and want to just hide in their cautious corner, Right? Cause they are so mysterious, there must be someone like you under there. Totally outgoing and widely chatty, right?
I've been seeing these anons telling a friend of mine to 'let go' and seriously he's having a blast here...He doesn't feel the need to hold back. and yeah he answered to that himself, but honestly it annoys me that people feel they can just assume "Oh this guy seems so careful and not as crazy as the rest of my tumblr friends. We gotta make him comfortable!! We should show him that he can TRUST us! He must have a horrible experience in his past, poor guy."
And while this friend is cautious
He's not that cautious. and assuming he would want the help of complete strangers to help him feel un-cautious if he were cautious is kind of redundant. If he wanted to be that careful and reclusive, he has every damn right to. Fuck.
And this goes for every person who wants space on tumblr...Every person that behaves a certain way. If they wanted your help I'm sure they'd act out a bit more.