#thenudecupcake

[futurerustfuture-dust]

thenudecupcake replied to your photo: Idk if I have enough wine, guys.

Oh man. Where do I find that?

It’s a Michigan local brand called Leelanau Cellars--I’m not sure if they sell it online, I just find it at my local Meijer/Target =/ 

[ignitesthestxrs]

thenudecupcake replied to your post “To the anon from the strict religious upbringing, I will answer your...”

I really wish someone had told me this when I was all smol and new <3

i was SUPER LUCKY in that my mum got over christianity by the time i was a teenager. we didn’t talk a lot about sex or masturbation, but i never had the impression that there was anything wrong or bad about it, and i did know about it. i also had comprehensive sex ed at school that made sure girls knew they could get aroused/pleasure out of sex.

there was also zero oversight of the books i read which helped.

but yeah female sexuality and sexual feelings is so...ignored, mostly because it terrifies people. the idea that girls might like fucking and being fucked and touching themselves is a threat, because controlling female sexuality is just another way of controlling female bodies and women in general. 

i have a lot of strong feelings about girls not being told they can masturbate and that it’s enjoyable and allowable