#thereisnoone

[classyshantel]

Just because it’s Sunday #sundaymorning #thereisnoone #carverheights https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt_m0KugWwI/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=ymwqrkrvnb4p

[comicssmtmweirdomoriarty-blog]

thereisnoone

can anxiety leave me pls exams are coming soon...

[masao19]

#地下道 #誰もいない #Underpass #ThereIsNoOne

[epsilon-and-delta]

There is No "One"

I have to say that it's really interesting being 18 months in to an idea that there is no "One" for me.

Before I go any further, let me give a little background:

I'm in a relationship. And I'm monogamous. And I'm deeply in love.

So why am I saying there is no "One" for me? Or for you?

Simple: the person who cares the LEAST has the most power in life.

I'm SUPER-clear that if my Partner decided to go sideways TOMORROW I would be OK. It would sting a little and that would be that. It would be "back into the sea" for me.

Having this freedom (and it is REAL freedom, as opposed to that bullshit "freedom" that the clueless prattle on endlessly about having and having no experience in) gives me the experience that my life and my commitments are bigger than my relationship. It also helps me keep perspective that I don't have to live in fear of "investing SO much time" or "keeping things going when it looks like it won't or can't work".

I live courageously inside the Abundance of the Universe and the Deity to provide all the love and joy and intimacy that I could ever want.

I invite you to do the same.