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How to Start Loving Who You Are

1. Start by being kind and gentle with yourself. There are plenty of people who would love to criticise … So be your own protector and your own best friend.

2. Choose self-love over self-hatred. Many people find they veer between these two extremes – but over time gravitate more towards one or the other (through automatic thinking and their inner dialogue) … So actively reject self-hatred, and then exercise self-love.

3. Stop being harsh and judgmental, and accept your imperfections. We’re all flawed and broken, and we all make bad mistakes.

4. Start enjoying who you are, and being alone with yourself. Embrace solitude, and the chance to be with “you”.

5. Think of all the different things you’re grateful for in life, and the people who have loved you, and have seen the good in you. As you do that, you will start to value who, and what, you are.

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Get ur head out of ur ass and understand that they're all cunts and don't deserve respect. All ur goddamn feminazi bullshit is sad. It's a sad day when sensitive little snowflake cucks can call themselves doms. They're holes to be fucked. My cunt knows her place, try teaching urs sometime.

Man, I bet you’re a hit at parties!

Lemme guess: you run one of the “rah rah patriarchy” blogs? One of the “all women are useless trash to be used by all men” blogs?

That’s adorable. I always assume you guys are just roleplaying but you seem to have really bought in. Good for you, champ.

Let me break this down for you:

You tell your woman that she’s trash. You call her a worthless cunt, you belittle her self-esteem to the point where it doesn’t exist, and you make her believe that she has no hope and no choice but to give in to you, so she does.

I tell my woman that she’s my equal. I tell her that she’s a warrior goddess. I make goddamn sure that she believes that she is the most beautiful, intelligent, and capable woman on the face of this planet, a treasure of infinite value who can do *any* goddamn thing she wants to do. And still, she chooses to kneel to me.

You’re not on my level. You’re not even fucking close.

You want to play fantasy misogyny time, you go right ahead. I don’t kinkshame. But if you honestly believe your own bullshit, I feel bad for you. A secure and confident man believes he can still succeed and thrive even if women are placed as his equal.

You are small, you are weak, and you are afraid. Stay in your fucking lane and let the grown men talk.

-LMS

papithedom

So question for you @lovemysub :

I literally agree with EVERYTHING you told this jagoff, but in the context of play, do you feel that using degradation/misogyny as part of the session is not an appropriate tool for a good Dom?

I tell my wife everyday that she is beautiful, I wait on her hand and foot, she wants for nothing. She truly is the most precious person in my life, and I value her submission and trust in the highest regard. However, especially during intense sessions, things turn really degrading. She enjoys it immensely, as do I. I was just curious, as a Dom I look up to, what your thoughts were.

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Hey @papithedom, great question!

The short answer is this: degradation and some misogynistic language can absolutely be tools that a dominant uses in the bedroom, *provided* that it’s part of your mutual kink, that your partner enjoys it, and they consent to it enthusiastically.

The keys are behavior, intent, and belief. If you treat your partner like gold, which it sounds like you do, and your intent is to provide her with pleasure, which it sounds like it is, and you don’t genuinely believe in misogyny, which it sounds like you don’t, then you can use that kind of language in a healthy and fun way in the bedroom. Personally, misogyny does nothing for me at all, but I’ll absolutely use somewhat dehumanizing terms like “fucktoy” in the bedroom with Sangi because she loves it and she loves it because knows that she’s incredibly loved, cherished, and valued as a human being. She wouldn’t be able to enjoy it otherwise. And that’s a big part of it- the line between “bedroom sexy Funtime” and the real world has to be clear, and you need to be going out of your way to never make your partner wonder if any of it is real.

My answer to this anon wasn’t about his use of a term or his kink, it was about him seeming to honestly buy in to the things he was saying. When this sort of talk comes from a sincerely held belief, that’s seriously toxic. But it sounds like you understand that already. So you’re good!

-LMS

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So if I may chime in from the s side of the slash? And I’ve posted on this before, so apologies to people who know what I’m going to say.

@papithedom I have a pretty big humiliation/degradation kink. I get off on it, no question. For a while, at the beginning of my submissive journey, learning about myself and why I was like this, I really struggled with it. I’m a feminist (yeah I said it, if people want to unfollow me, go ahead) because I wholeheartedly subscribe to the (apparently mindblowing) idea that women are people and deserve to have the same rights and responsibilities as men. I work hard, I have a career that I love and am financially independent. The fact that I also have a deep seated need to submit, and that one of the things I liked was really at odds with one of my core beliefs took me a long time to wrap my head around. But I did, in no small way thanks to my first Dom who reminded me that people can and should hold conflicting beliefs on a variety of things and who worked with me to find a place where my kink could coexist with my worldview.

BUT I only engage in that kink with a partner I trust implicitly (which should be how we all operate anyway). And in this specific case, for me, trust means that I know the man who dominates me, who calls me names in scene, who strips me bare of all my external shields, doesn’t ACTUALLY think I’m worthless or a cunt or nothing but a set of holes to be used. We’re engaging in a specific kind of intimacy that works for both of us because at the end of the scene we have genuine affection and respect for each other. That’s how it works for me and why I steer really clear of those pro-patriarchy blogs and Doms. As @lovemysub said, I think (hope?) the majority of them are role play/fantasy but it’s really hard to tell and I want nothing to do with guys who might honestly think like that.

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Let Me Explain

Let me explain exactly what I have in mind. I’m going to fill you in on what I’m going to do to you like this. So you don’t have any questions.

I’m going to place my hands all over your naked body. Run my fingers over your neck, your collarbone and your breasts. Tease your nipples till they’re standing so tall you feel like they might pop out of your skin. Stroke your thighs and your bottom and watch as you try and push your body to feel more of my touch. I’m going to tease you till you’re so wet and needy from my touch that you’re practically shouting for release.

But that’s just the beginning. There’s so much more from there. I’m going to let my tongue start in next. It’s going to make sure it finds places on your body that no one has ever explored. Places that make you blush and whimper. It’s going to snake up and down and all around you till it finds its favorite place. You know where that is don’t you, love. Mhm, I know you do.

Once I get there, I’m still not close to fucking done with you. I’m going to tease you with just the tip of my tongue. Let you barely feel the pleasure I’m going to draw from you. Make you writhe and beg and plead for more. Slowly, I’m going to taste you, more and more, each part of my tongue eventually slithering and sliding inside of you, devouring you, absorbing your juices, basking in your arousal till you’re nothing but a desperate puddle. Until the only thing I can smell is your desperation. Till the only thing that fills my ears is your pleadings.

I like that you’re keeping a straight face for me. That you’re not giving me the satisfaction of your reaction. It just makes me want to bring it out of you that much more. To watch your facade crumble and give in to what’s coming to you. Mmmm, make it hard for me, love, because I am about to make it very, very hard for you to keep your composure.