November Love Theme Reading
Top Row is for couples, bottom row is for singles.
Couples: The High Priestess, 9 of Swords Reversed
Singles: Temperance, 2 of Swords, 7 of Wands
Overall Energy: Ace of Wands
Oracle Color: Brown; Establish Boundaries
Couples:
There may be some turbulence in the relationship this month, and you or your partner may intuitively know what to do but you don’t want to face it (9 of swords facing the High Priestess). In what ways can you practice self-love to find harmony within yourself again? It’s time to trust your instincts. For some others, both or one of the people in the relationship may be at the end of their rope and it’s affecting them mentally. With the Lovers card as the following card, it could be a sign of both parties actively working to regain the balance and harmony within the relationship. The Ace of Wands as the overall energy confirms this, for it represents a spark of passion. What got you both together in the first place? It may be a message to reflect on that question for this month.
Singles:
You may either currently be working on your balance, both mentally and emotionally in November. You may be reflecting on your past and how it affected you, but this message is telling me that it’s time to detach yourself from the past, and allow yourself to go thru the motions. You may moderate between feeling angry, hurt, bitter, and sad, and then finally happy. Allow yourself to go thru these motions so you can be best prepared for the next relationship, if you are looking. With the 2 of Swords between the Temperance and 7 of Swords, you’re balancing (or being guided to balance) between allowing your emotions to run the show and persevering through the changes by staying strong. The 2 of Swords between these two cards can also be a symbol of you going back and forth with wanting to let the emotions and sadness overrule you, and standing strong in your truth. The Temperance card is a reminder to find bliss in the wisdom gained from the past in order to find your footing in the single world. If you’re not ready for a relationship it’s fine, there’s nothing wrong with taking the time to take care of yourself. For the singles overall, it seems like the focus is more so on recovering and standing firm in your truth, whether if it’s you’re looking for a relationship or not.
The overall Energy of this reading is the Ace of Wands, so there is definitely a spark of passion in the air for both the couples and singles. This month can be a time of being more passionate and creative within relationships, and for singles it can be a spark of passion for yourself in terms of self-care.
The oracle color for this month is Brown; Establish Boundaries. Realize what you can and can’t do for yourself and others, and that goes for couples and singles.