#thingshedoesthatmakemelovehim

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He loves the tea I make, now! He asks me to make it! (Rather than asking someone else to hmph.)

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He reminds me to be patient

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He never complains about the tea I make, no matter how awful it is.

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No matter how late at night it is or how tired he is, if I am sad, he comforts me and kisses away my tears. I love that about him. I don’t have to hide anything.

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When he says something mean, he immediately sees that he’s hurt me and apologises and hugs me. Then he tries not say it again.

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The 6-hour Nadia Hussain Incident

On Saturday, I went to the salon and what should have taken 2 hours ended up taking 6 hours. He was driving around the whole time, in the heat, trying to find something to do and the hairdresser kept saying ‘one more hour’. (Home was too far away.) I felt so guilty and upset that he had to go through all that frustration. He had very kindly agreed to take me on Saturday as the salon was fully booked on Friday.

I was terrified he was going to yell at me. The way my elders would have done to me. I knew he was angry.

He didn’t say one word of anger to me. And when he saw the result of all that time at the salon, he was happy and appreciative <3

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When he thinks I might be ill, he always asks if I'm feeling ok.

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Sometimes when I’m hurt, I’m rude to him yet he is still good to me and tries to undo the hurt.

I’m trying to better myself.