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[liling-lifestyle-blog]

Chinese new year 2022

We not able to go back to celebrate at year 2021 for CNY due to pandemic last year. But this year.. Yeah... we already overcome it and manage to go back to hometown.. as usual.. i will go back Taiping and follow my hubby to Ipoh only on Chor 1. 

One week before we go back for holiday CNY, me and my hubby attending a class at church.. a pastor giving talks about how to reunion happily with parents during CNY.. 3 things dont do 1) don’t only stay alone for yourself... go and mix around your family member and relative 2) don’t hurt people with words ( when u getting marriage soon? when want to have another baby)?? 3) don’t show off ( don’t give so much of comments and listen to them more) 3 things u must do 1) entertain and serve everyone in our family members , relative and friends 2) absorb what others say about you even it is not true. don’t fight back 3) be humble

You know what.. i manage to follow this and well done to myself.. i am really happy with this year CNY.. although i feel very tired overall.. but i am really satisfied with what i had promise myself to do it.. 

When i start to change... i can see everything around me change too.. the voice, the volume and my mindset need to always clean up to a better version of me. this CNY i can see my mum change a lot.. she is much more better compare with last time. i am so happy and so glad to see her that she too change to be a better person now. 

Learn to keep improving myself everyday. 

today is chap goh meh . my wish in my life every year, everyday ,every minutes and every second is the same as below: Wish everyone healthy and happy and be safe wish everyone stay wealthy too 

[iamdaphne24]

Things I’m Still Learning

Dear Readers,

When I was young, I thought that you can only learn things from attending school or even going to church. As I grew up, I have encountered different situations and a lot of people along the way with different perspectives and point of views, which affected my whole personality.

Now that I have finished my teenage years and completed my year of 20s, I realized that I should become more responsible and mature enough in handling a lot of things and it should start from me.

Self care ISN’T SELFISH! These are a few things that I believe I’m still learning:

What others think of me is not my concern. They can honestly tell me whatever they want, after all, I don’t care. Seriously, people don’t run out of comments, suggestions or judgements. They are non-stop. I don’t live for them. Its a funny thing that most people say that they know me -- when they don’t. Don’t limit yourself because you’re scared of what others will think about you. You cannot control what others will say about you -- NEVER. Its just the sad truth. Live your life the way you want it and as long as you’re not hurting someone or stepping on other people’s shoes.

Rest is an essential part of my hustle. We are just a human being. We are not a super-hero who has extra-ordinary strength and can recuperate fast. We need to rest. It is okay to exert a little effort but over doing something is not healthy. Its better to rest for a while and try to unwind things before continuing doing what you’re doing.

Everybody I started can’t come with me to the next level. People come and go. People sometimes come in our lives only to teach us some valuable lessons. Each and everyone of us has our own journey. We have our different and unique next level.

I have the right to change my mind without explanation. I don’t need to explain to people. I don’t need to owe them anything when I change my mind on something.

Growth can be found in stillness. Stillness is a calm, quiet, motionless state. Being still can draw you to make clearer thoughts and ideas. It makes you feel more at peace and less stressed out.

Struggling doesn’t mean I’m failing. Struggles are a big part of growth. Struggles are challenges that makes us strong along the way. Nothing comes easy. Its better struggling for success than to accept the fact that you’re just contented with what you have and be stagnant for the rest of your life. Failure is a crucial part of success because it is when you learn things that makes you do things differently.

Self care is the individual practise of health management without the aid of a medical professional.(https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-care) It is very important to be mindful of your own needs, so that you can be able to support the people you care about more.

Hoping these helped you.

Sincerely,

Daphne

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[therewasabrowncrow]

“I was already in that space that you created for me”

Intersectionality workshop at the Richmix. Discussions around post colonial identities, community and individual especially surrounding the Somali diaspora in Britain.