180 flipping engagement on its head
Girls before you start dropping hints about marriage make sure you want a life long partnership and not just a pretty for your finger.
I see this more and more. girls want the feeling of being wanted and what better way of feeling that way than having some one ask to marry you. The thing is before you started dropping your “subtle” hints you didn’t consider what a marriage is. There for get cold feet take off leaving some poor bastard holding the bag.
Now what, you couldn’t figure out that you had things you wanted to accomplish before you got married, before you got engaged? Or figured out how to do them in a marriage?
I guess all I’m saying is if a man is with you and treats you right he wants you. There’s should be no rush to prove that with the premature weight of an engagement. The day before I put that ring on her finger to the day she took it off, my commitment to her couldn’t have been greater. Its an item that’s all it is, true commitment is trust and a choice the ring as a minor symbol the choice is what’s important.