How to become a successful escort/sugarbaby. (Cheat sheet)
My guide: (warning) All this information I’m about to inform you is personal years of experience, research, and success. This is what these girls are trying to sell you and make you pay thousands for. Understand that sex will be involved, and it will take you about 8-10 years to achieve. You will have to be motivated and driven in order to become successful, this is not for the weak. This is a lifestyle change! (A lot of girls start underage sadly, but I don’t recommend it). Please be safe and 18+.
Enjoy!
Year 1:Building your persona
I want you to take the time to imagine where you are going to be in 8-10 years. Do you plan on marrying your sugardaddy/sponser, do you plan on building a career, maybe graduate college? This is going to matter because it will give you the drive/motivation to enter this industry. It will also help you understand the mindset you are going to have moving forward. You will attract a certain type of client/sponser, if you already have a certain mindset and goal.
Get into a state of productiveness. Use this year to build your mindset, write down your goals, and create your world. Listen to motivation videos, start by reading some books such as the art of seduction and hoe tactics, and get into a state of productiveness. Make your persona about your personality, do not try to be something that you are not. There is somebody out there for everybody, trying to be something that you are not will not work and destroy your hard work for years to follow. But do understand certain aspects attract different sponsers, and they will follow. Learn to decenter men and make it about your personality (Travel, beauty or etc..) It’s also important to understand, if you want to find sponsors (50,000-100,000k arrangements ) you will have to build your persona about what older men enjoy.
Save your money: Open a savings account and invest. I cannot stress this enough, save your money. Don’t worry about expensive shoes, bags, and cars. That stuff comes later, right now focus on your mindset. That is truly the key. I have attracted more men in a $10 dollar dress, than a $100 dollar dress. Get your shit together first!
Year 2: Enter into there world/Start taking care of yourself.
Go where the rich hangout and start getting used to there lifestyle. Go to fancy restaurants, bars or even galas, go where best fits your personality, If you want to understand there mindset, you are going to have to put yourself out there. Get uncomfortable and stop being scary, put yourself in there spaces. Once you get passed your fear, you will unlock a certain level to your self esteem. Do your hair, makeup and take care of your skin. Natural beauty is always the best, enchancements are fine, but understand the rich don’t care for enchantments such as big tits or huge lips. If your are going for filler, make it look as natural as possible. They prefer the girl next door look or the natural it girl type look. Pics will be provided down below. Do what makes you feel comfortable, but less is always more. Don’t worry about your weight, looking like a model or even Beyoncé. Just focus on the little things about yourself and learn to love the skin you are in.
Year 3:Do your research
Remember when I said to read some books such as hoe tactics and the art of seduction? Read the books and study them. It will give you a general idea of how to start understanding men mindsets. Read tumblr blogs and watch videos. Do it for an entire year! It will truly determine if you are ready for this lifestyle and if you have the motivation. This is a lifestyle change .Start taking pictures of yourself and highlight important aspects about your personality. It will give you an idea on how you want your pictures to be and what to attract. Highlight your best features such as your face, eyes or even legs. Start getting used to taking pictures of yourself, it will also help build your confidence. Once you are comfortable with that, start doing your research about dating apps such a seeking arrangement, bumble or luxy. You need to know what to expect from joining those apps. Yes, it will matter and I will explain to you later. For now this is about RESEARCH. Make sure to also research, how to keep yourself safe, sexual health, mental health, and wellbeing.
Year 4: start on dating sites.
Yes, I know. Seeking arrangement is awful and it does not always work. But there can be gems and always maximize your options. Everybody starts somewhere, plus it’s good to gain experience and understand how men work. Focus on that for about a year, and start stacking your money. (Save, save, save). Start having conversations with men and understand the topics they might like. Most men love to talk politics, sociology, science, etc. Knowing how to hold a conversation will build your confidence and keep them engaged. Stay on the dating apps when entering the next level, and have a few daddies to take care of your bills while on this journey. They don’t have to be millionaires, just men to help pay your bills until you find your whale 🤑. Always keep a roster. Once you’re comfortable with this lifestyle and you are comfortable with having men take pictures of yourself, update the lifestyle pictures of yourself every year with the pictures they take.
Picture tips: Start taking pictures of yourself and highlight important aspects about your personality. It will give you an idea on how you want your pictures to be and what to attract. Highlight your best features such as your face, eyes or even legs. Start getting used to taking pictures of yourself. Once you are comfortable with that. If you want to attract more generous men, take your pictures from a men’s perspective.
One face shot, restaurant or lifestyle picture, bikini shot, an outfit of your choice (preferably a little black dress or jeans and shirt. Both is great, it shows you can dress up or down).
Year 5-6:
This is the years, you will get used to a certain lifestyle, if you are high end hoe, likes luxury items, traveling, etc. You will acquire these items overtime, along with building your closet, updating your space (moving), focusing on your health, and keeping yourself up. For the girls that are using seeking arrangement as a stepping stone to escorting, I will make a separate post about that. I will also include tips about freestyling, how to meet men in the wild, transitioning a client into a sponser, etc.
I will make a separate post about escorting, but here the basics to start off.