[h0eforhire]

I’m going to be so rich one day, that I look at the price of buildings like I look at the price of gum.

[deitywork]

spend enough time social climbing and soon enough you’ll realise everything purported by so called level-up / hypergamy / sugarb*by blogs is vapour.

men spending large sums of money on you boils down to two factors:

1. he has the capital to do so

2. he likes you enough to do so

failure of either criteria results in a net 0 outcome. don’t overcomplicate it, don’t overthink it, move on and repeat until you find a situation that meets both criteria successfully.

[hermajestyimher]

"Your" insecurities are not yours. They are echoes of other people’s toxicity that you absorbed over time. You moved through life like a sponge, taking in their hatred, their flaws, their unresolved pain. These attachments came from exposure, not choice.

When self-conscious thoughts and doubts surface, recognize them for what they are: programming inherited from unhealed people. They are not your voice. The cycle breaks when you stop identifying with them. The difficulty lies in the fact that these thoughts sit in the body, triggering somatic responses that feel real and personal. But they are intruders, unwanted guests, not your intrinsic self.

Detachment comes from observing the feeling without becoming it, questioning why it exists, and refusing to carry it further. When you do this, you shed the weight of other people’s baggage. Their trash no longer defines you. What remains is clarity, confidence, and the freedom to move through life unburdened.

[h0eforhire]

Real bitches, that are getting a bag. Don’t have to prove to the world they got it. The goal is always to get that bag and disappear. Period

Don’t listen to social media, it’s all just a bunch of lies. Focus on being the best version of yourself and you will always win.

[2productive]

Reasons to take advantage of pretty privilege

People are nicer to those they find attractive

People are more likely to help you and give you things

Your achievements will be praised more and minor slip-ups will be more easily forgiven

People will want to befriend you and even just want to be in your proximity (unless you have a bitchy/stuck up aura)

You will have a wider variety of dating options to pick from

Your style will be praised more, even if it’s quite simple

You will be given more opportunities at work and in life

People will naturally think more highly of you

You will be more memorable

You will hear please and thank you more often

This is random but if you get pregnant, people will say that your baby is going to be really cute

It won’t be weird that you expect to own nice things in life and people will actually want you to have them

Oddly enough, people will genuinely be mad or confused if you date someone they deem as unattractive and want you to do better

You will get cute/prissy nicknames like babygirl, princess, angel etc

You’ll hear “you’re so pretty” from random girls you just met

People will go out of their way to include you in things

Men will want to spend on you, sponsor you, and spoil you to heaven and back after taking just one look at you

Ever since I made my looks one of my top priorities, I’ve been given free things, had a really cute artist draw pictures of me, get chosen to be the face of my companies social media promotions, had a man buy me 14 pairs of shoes after we first met (his bank flagged the purchase bc it seemed suspicious to them lmao), and had a man I went on one date with offer to add me to his bank account (which I declined bc uhhhh). You think life is unfairly preferential to pretty girls? Well you can either complain about it or you can try to get a slice of the pie for yourself. Your clock is ticking, so act fast 😉

[kimreesesdaughter]

best advice you’d give a girl?

Get your money. 

Write your book. 

TRAVEL!!!! 

Have kids in your 30s if you want them, see the World first. 

Make a vision board and put EVERYTHING you want to have and touch in this lifetime on it. 

Make an annual goal list and demolish that shit. 

Don’t take dating in your 20s seriously, 32 year old you might not fuck with the same partner energy and/or qualities as 24 year old you. 

Apply to jobs you don’t feel qualified for. 

Buy lots of sex toys. 

Take yourself on bomb ass dates.

Take your friend(s) on bomb ass dates, movie nights and spa days.

Do something once a year to get your heart racing.

Race a car!

Learn how to shoot a gun and then buy one. 

Invest in a lifestyle that encourages your impossible dreams. 

Get rid of friends that are not growing with you. 

Learn to say no and communicate with people to tell them you don’t fuck with them. 

Be selfish.

Live by yourself at least one year before you move in with a partner and/or get married. You will save yourself so many lessons by living alone first. 

Tell people when you don’t have an orgasm. 

Buy lots of shoes, art and plane tickets. 

[scorpionlafemme]

[h0eforhire]

How to become a successful escort/sugarbaby. (Cheat sheet)

My guide: (warning) All this information I’m about to inform you is personal years of experience, research, and success. This is what these girls are trying to sell you and make you pay thousands for. Understand that sex will be involved, and it will take you about 8-10 years to achieve. You will have to be motivated and driven in order to become successful, this is not for the weak. This is a lifestyle change! (A lot of girls start underage sadly, but I don’t recommend it). Please be safe and 18+.

Enjoy!

Year 1:Building your persona

I want you to take the time to imagine where you are going to be in 8-10 years. Do you plan on marrying your sugardaddy/sponser, do you plan on building a career, maybe graduate college? This is going to matter because it will give you the drive/motivation to enter this industry. It will also help you understand the mindset you are going to have moving forward. You will attract a certain type of client/sponser, if you already have a certain mindset and goal.

Get into a state of productiveness. Use this year to build your mindset, write down your goals, and create your world. Listen to motivation videos, start by reading some books such as the art of seduction and hoe tactics, and get into a state of productiveness. Make your persona about your personality, do not try to be something that you are not. There is somebody out there for everybody, trying to be something that you are not will not work and destroy your hard work for years to follow. But do understand certain aspects attract different sponsers, and they will follow. Learn to decenter men and make it about your personality (Travel, beauty or etc..) It’s also important to understand, if you want to find sponsors (50,000-100,000k arrangements ) you will have to build your persona about what older men enjoy.

Save your money: Open a savings account and invest. I cannot stress this enough, save your money. Don’t worry about expensive shoes, bags, and cars. That stuff comes later, right now focus on your mindset. That is truly the key. I have attracted more men in a $10 dollar dress, than a $100 dollar dress. Get your shit together first!

Year 2: Enter into there world/Start taking care of yourself.

Go where the rich hangout and start getting used to there lifestyle. Go to fancy restaurants, bars or even galas, go where best fits your personality, If you want to understand there mindset, you are going to have to put yourself out there. Get uncomfortable and stop being scary, put yourself in there spaces. Once you get passed your fear, you will unlock a certain level to your self esteem. Do your hair, makeup and take care of your skin. Natural beauty is always the best, enchancements are fine, but understand the rich don’t care for enchantments such as big tits or huge lips. If your are going for filler, make it look as natural as possible. They prefer the girl next door look or the natural it girl type look. Pics will be provided down below. Do what makes you feel comfortable, but less is always more. Don’t worry about your weight, looking like a model or even Beyoncé. Just focus on the little things about yourself and learn to love the skin you are in.

Year 3:Do your research

Remember when I said to read some books such as hoe tactics and the art of seduction? Read the books and study them. It will give you a general idea of how to start understanding men mindsets. Read tumblr blogs and watch videos. Do it for an entire year! It will truly determine if you are ready for this lifestyle and if you have the motivation. This is a lifestyle change .Start taking pictures of yourself and highlight important aspects about your personality. It will give you an idea on how you want your pictures to be and what to attract. Highlight your best features such as your face, eyes or even legs. Start getting used to taking pictures of yourself, it will also help build your confidence. Once you are comfortable with that, start doing your research about dating apps such a seeking arrangement, bumble or luxy. You need to know what to expect from joining those apps. Yes, it will matter and I will explain to you later. For now this is about RESEARCH. Make sure to also research, how to keep yourself safe, sexual health, mental health, and wellbeing.

Year 4: start on dating sites.

Yes, I know. Seeking arrangement is awful and it does not always work. But there can be gems and always maximize your options. Everybody starts somewhere, plus it’s good to gain experience and understand how men work. Focus on that for about a year, and start stacking your money. (Save, save, save). Start having conversations with men and understand the topics they might like. Most men love to talk politics, sociology, science, etc. Knowing how to hold a conversation will build your confidence and keep them engaged. Stay on the dating apps when entering the next level, and have a few daddies to take care of your bills while on this journey. They don’t have to be millionaires, just men to help pay your bills until you find your whale 🤑. Always keep a roster. Once you’re comfortable with this lifestyle and you are comfortable with having men take pictures of yourself, update the lifestyle pictures of yourself every year with the pictures they take.

Picture tips: Start taking pictures of yourself and highlight important aspects about your personality. It will give you an idea on how you want your pictures to be and what to attract. Highlight your best features such as your face, eyes or even legs. Start getting used to taking pictures of yourself. Once you are comfortable with that. If you want to attract more generous men, take your pictures from a men’s perspective.

One face shot, restaurant or lifestyle picture, bikini shot, an outfit of your choice (preferably a little black dress or jeans and shirt. Both is great, it shows you can dress up or down).

Year 5-6:

This is the years, you will get used to a certain lifestyle, if you are high end hoe, likes luxury items, traveling, etc. You will acquire these items overtime, along with building your closet, updating your space (moving), focusing on your health, and keeping yourself up. For the girls that are using seeking arrangement as a stepping stone to escorting, I will make a separate post about that. I will also include tips about freestyling, how to meet men in the wild, transitioning a client into a sponser, etc.

I will make a separate post about escorting, but here the basics to start off.

[h0eforhire]

Just got back from a flight from Virginia with a pot.

#random post

[h0eforhire]

Making a master post about how to become a successful escort/sugarbaby. The gems are amazing, you will thank me later :)

[hermajestyimher]

We don’t talk enough about the importance of having a personality that is so rooted in yourself that the exterior world is unable to change you. It’s so easy to allow ourselves to get influenced and carried away by what everyone else is doing that we forget to take a step back and think if how we’re acting is actually in alignment with our core self. Going back to basics and being yourself to the fullest without feeling the pressure to conform and be just like everyone else is one of the most freeing experiences one can have.

[h0eforhire]

Something I learned in life is that you can ruin your own blessings if you don’t believe in yourself. I can sometimes self sabotage myself, which leads to chaos. Don’t let fear ruin your peace. Fear is stupid, so are regrets.

[alphaxheaux]

Dating a broke man is stupid, marrying a broke man is even dumber and having children with a broke man is child abuse.

[freshoneyl-deactivated20191024]

may you be protected from all evil

[h0eforhire]

Miss escorting and making bands per day. Being a sugarbaby is lame. Escorting is more fun :)

[museify]

[asvpfrenchy]

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[lais-noire-deactivated20260601]

I have a certain “whatever happened to her” or “damn I haven’t seen her in forever, I wonder where she is” vibe to my aura.

this is the art of transmutation…you can’t know me because I am ever changing 🦋