#this is figurmisia

[this-is-formimisia]

my jaw and mouth are too small and my teeth are a bit too big for my mouth to the point that my adult teeth never fully grew in because of it, and the teeth that came in are very overcrowded. it causes a variety of issues including tmj and headaches, but the only thing ever pointed out is my smile. i went years suppressing my smile because people would mention it often and it made me insecure. the health issues that came from it were never considered by others, only my appearance. i dont want to fully fix my teeth, they dont need to be straight. there are other, non cosmetic things, i would like done, but i absolutely do not want straight teeth. its an unrealistic beauty standard and i think my crooked teeth are fine even if other people dont

This is formimisia and figurmisia. Your health matters more than your appearance.

[this-is-formimisia]

formimisia and figurmisia are when people think theyre entitled to your life story.

This is formimisia and figurmisia. And ableism in general.

[this-is-formimisia]

What exactly counts for this blog? I'm 4'10.5 (like... 0.5 above the limit to be considered having dwarfism) but wasn't sure if 'unusually short stature' counted for what you're going for here ^^;

This would be formimisia, a lot of formimisia can identify as figurmisia though.

[this-is-formimisia]

Someone telling me that I've got internalised ableism because I'm not comfortable being called the d word for my limb differences

Like yeah, I do have internalised ableism from living in an ableist society (like everyone I think) and I'm trying to unlearn that but my opinion on that word has nothing to do with that.

This is formimisia and figurmisia and ableism. You get to choose how you feel about words used as slurs against you.

[this-is-formimisia]

i don't know what this is, but having scoliosis and being trans, being told by my father to not disfigure myself more -_-

(aka get top surgery)

This is figurmisia, formimisia, and transphobia.

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Having to think about where I sh and what I weat cause apparently I shouldn't make others uncomfortable with my struggling

This is figurmisia.

[this-is-formimisia]

Formimisia is my mother always forcing me to cover up, even in the middle of heat waves.

This is figurmisia and/or formimisia, and dangerous!