#this is so so true

[pixiegrl]

i respect all opinions and respectfully do NOT think they're going to name their album 5sos5 because that is way too simple and these boys have just gotten more and more pretentious the longer they've been alive. itll be called something like "growth" or some symbolic shit like that if you ask me, not that you did, but while we're talking about potential album titles. also i would like to add that i do not CARE but this is what i think. xoxo bella

Bella, you are 100% correct. They’re gonn call it growth or something else pretentious about how they’ve “developed as people in quarantine” and i will have to put my phone down, put my head in my hands and groan while I purchase it anyway

[candiedspit]

Jamie Lowe’s memoir, “Mental”

[smallblanketfort]

i’m gonna ramble on about family

you know the whole “blood is thicker than water” thing? it’s bullshit. the quote really comes from “the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.” the bond formed from the blood you shed side by side with someone BY CHOICE is stronger than the bond formed by birth. the complete opposite meaning.

keeping that in mind, i think the holidays *are* for spending time with your family. but i have a very loose definition of family, so let me rephrase that: the holidays are for spending time with the people you love.

i grew up with 1000 miles and a border between me and my biological family, but that doesn’t mean i didn’t have a family around me. my mom and i built a real family brick by brick, with just the four hands that we had between us. but then she moved us back across that border and all those miles to our bio family, and she still can’t understand why they feel so much less like family than anyone in canada. but that’s okay. it’s been years and yet my canadian homemade family still had a bed for me to sleep in when i went to visit for holidays.

see, family is what you make of it. it’s the feeling of being a sibling to your best friend. it’s the people who have your back and who love and accept you for who you truly are. we moved to be closer to family, yet i lost most of my family when we moved. so for the holidays, i think you should be spending time with your real family, the one whose absence you’d feel in your stomach when you’re far, whether they’re your bio family or not.

🌱 cutttmylip 

[almaviva90]

Both, because the point is you can’t have one without the other. There is no chaos without knowing what some order is. You have to destroy it so it’s not an over-ordered life – you need to make a mess.

Alan Rickman on whether he preferred order or chaos (x)

[littlekinkling]

this is very comforting for me

[k-l-a-n-c-e-a-c-a-d-e-m-y]

wait itsbree follow me i switched accounts withpoe you’re the only mutual i need.

Ur so so so right as always Bree I’m following u immediately

[discoursecatharsis]

The whole anti fujoshi discourse is funny and sad at the same time. Not because they misuse/change the meaning and refuse to listen to Japanese folks when they tell them to stop doing that, its they are shooting each other. All of them are fucking fujoshis themselves, they just hide behind 'I'm not like the other girls' and 'being gay activist for shipping the good ships™ uwu'.

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