for the kink ratings- giving and/or receiving:
groping
bites (particularly neck/shoulders)
hickies (fav spots?👀)
back scratching
being woken up with oral👀👀
Groping No | rather not | I dunno | I guess | Sure | Yes | FUCK yes | Oh god you don’t even know | Yes please. I will grab you in public when no one is looking, and I want the same in return. Bites
No | rather not | I dunno | I guess | Sure | Yes | FUCK yes | Oh god you don’t even know | Biting has never been my thing. I'll let you bite, and I'll bite back, but I don't break skin. If you break skin on me, that's a boundary. Hickies No | rather not | I dunno | I guess | Sure | Yes | FUCK yes | Oh god you don’t even know | I like them, but I'm not in my 20s anymore and don't want to openly display them on my neck like I'm a peasant suffering from the black plague. My arms, torso, thighs, hips (this one is a really fun one, do this one please), back, this is fine. Don't get it twisted, I will go crazy for my neck and shoulders being kissed and nibbled at, just don't leave a mark. I don't mind being seen as a slut, but messy? That's different. back scratching No | rather not | I dunno | I guess | Sure | Yes | FUCK yes | Oh god you don’t even know | YES! But again, do not break skin. If you gentle scratch, you're going to accomplish two things: calm me way the fuck down (and thus get my mind to slow down and stop being anxious) and also REALLY TURN ME ON. On pain of death, I will take gentle finger tracing/scratching over head 6/10 times. being woken up with oral No | rather not | I dunno | I guess | Sure | Yes | FUCK yes | Oh god you don’t even know | Hasn't happened to me yet, despite mentioning it to many and giving consent, to many. I really really love the idea of it. I've done it to others! Putting it in the "fuck yes" category only because; maybe the fantasy is stronger than the reality, who knows.













