Happy #factualfriday 🤷🏽♀️😂 Welcome to all my new followers! I realize I haven’t introduced myself - my bad! My name is Cindy Lee, my pronouns are she/they, I’m a Cancer ☀️/Cancer ⤴️/Gemini 🌙, and I love sour powers (shoutout to Bulk spot on Rivington #LES)! The photos are from my recent trip to New Orleans, along with some dope art (shoutout to my lover 📸). We recently went to Essence Fest and had an amazing time. This was our 2nd time together and, after Girls Trip, the attendees have tripled! It was GLORIOUS to see Black femmes enjoying their own version of Girls Trip (matching T-shirts included). We did spend a lot of time together just loving up on each other and eating amazing local foods - we can be a little introverted but we vibe in that way. But nah … a little of who I am: I am a Sexologist, Educator, Writer, Speaker and avid shimmy-er. I talk about sexuality A LOT! I talk about sex, no doubt, but what tickles my pickle are the NUANCES when it comes to sexuality. Some of my fave topics include: pleasure, gender (or the lack thereof lol), and sexual empowerment - with particular investment in my own communities (Black, Brown, Fat, Femme, Nonbinary). I wanted to be a sexologist since I was in junior high. Folks thought I was just saying that to feel grown. Yet so many of us are grown and still are uncomfortable with the topic, especially when it comes to their own bedrooms. Shit. I get it. I’ve been raised in environments that weren’t really talking about this in public. I’m still in it. And I still have stuff I am working on - the process is REAL but so is the trust in it! And now I have a lot more in my sexuality toolbox than AOL and dial-up 😆. Interested? What do you wanna know more about? What would you like to see more on this page? A closed mouth doesn’t get fed … *shimmies* #succulentsexologist #thisissexuality #thisissexed