To Mr Douche-bag Husband, Your wife is currently holding YOUR youngest daughter in her arms, while you sat across her without a care. Fine so maybe you both are tired and petty after a long day of work and you both had a little misunderstanding, its fine to spat a little, that I don't care as much. However, what I cannot COMPREHEND nor can I UNDERSTAND is how CAN YOU JUST WATCH HER TRYING TO KEEP YOUR TWO ELDEST DAUGHTER ENTERTAIN WHILE SHE HELD THE OTHER CHILD IN HER ARMS. Your ELDEST DAUGHTER was the one to find a child seat for her younger sister while you sat there at too busy with your phone. You SPAT AT YOUR WIFE TO SAT YOUR YOUNGEST ON THE CHILD SEAT! WHILE YOU LOOK ON AND DO NOTHING. Now, what I really want to say is this: If you find yourself annoyed at the little things your daughters do, and find that your wife if too full to actually do some thing: START PARENTING! Dude, honestly I cant even. She your daughter, you are her father, of course they would listen to you. So start acting like a father to them, not just be one in blood or certificate. Sheeeh if that is the norm than its a mega wonder WHY women/men (practically everyone tbh) are weary of marrying or committing into any relation. Its because of douches like you. Take it from this heterosexual (or am i demisexual? Meeh) woman ranting. Singles that wanted to have a relationship of any kind, are looking for a partner that not just good in making babies (sex) but can actually raise one too (parenting). At least in the traditional/conventional ways. However deep down, everyone wanted that, that companionship, that connection. Somehow that bond is disconnected between you and your wife, but honestly, try working it out. One way or a another, do something. Act. Don't just sit there looking dumb. It made an impression on other people, but most importantly, it will leave a lasting impact on your daughters, who may (hopefully not) one day marry someone abusive and thought that those abusive acts are the norm, because that was how their own dad treat their mom once upon a time. The only humble, inexperience advice this 23 year old unmarried, rambling woman can give you is to please treat your wife as another human being, that had feeling, that understand emotions, that worked possibly as hard if not harder than you (not saying that you dont). Please appreciate her because one day, she might be strong enough to know that she would be better off without you, or with someone much better than you. Most importantly, please take the time to be an awesome father to your incredible daughters that looked mature for their ages of under 10, because I think they deserve as much from you. Thank you, Sincerely, deliciouslovetree/Sapphire/Syafiqah/pika/Pikachu.
