tigerkid14 replied to your post “My sisters just shared an article on fb called ‘stop being a butthole...”
I read that POS article too because someone on Facebook posted it. And I thought "shouldn't marriage be about compromise and not treating the other person shittily and maybe being courteous enough to put your clothes in the damn laundry basket?" and then I realized who I'd be talking to and went away to angrily do things for a little while until I was calmer.
tigerkid14 replied to your post “My sisters just shared an article on fb called ‘stop being a butthole...”
I also had some thoughts about using their lingo against them and being all "if a wife must be submissive to her husband as to Christ and he's supposed to be emulating the Lord, then the question to ask here is: would Jesus leave his clothes all over the damn place?" But I already have a reputation on my Facebook for sarcastic WWJD comments, so i refrained, just this once.
I brought it up to my sisters in a group message, and they were just ‘you don’t understand, did you even read the article, it’s about appreciating what you have because you can lose it, and learning to not sweat the small stuff’.
I just asked them how the men showed them that they were appreciated. neither responded to that.
Yeah. I hate how people bring up compromise, but it seems that so often in w/m relationships, it ends up being the woman compromising everything because the man wont budge.