“I tried time-ins! They still get upset and won’t listen!” The intention, with time-ins is never to elicit compliance or an immediate calm down. The intention is to hold space, and validate their feelings while they learn they are safe experiencing big emotions in your presence. During that time, they utilize co-regulation and self-regulation strategies to support the processing of their emotions. J. Milburn @responsive_parenting #responsiveparenting #jmilburn #reflectionpractice #timein #selfregulation #coregulation #emotionalintelligence #childdevelopment #lovethemthroughthehardtimes #allemotionsarevalid #feelingisprocessing https://www.instagram.com/p/CUtB5PFr3H5/?utm_medium=tumblr