Kashima/raita for the domestic ask please!
Who is the big spoon/little spoon? - It would make sense for Kashima to be the big spoon, because he is significantly bigger than Kamo. But jesus, Kamo is a little barnacle sometimes, and just sticks to his back like glue. Kamo just kind of fits where he fits, and often thats against Kashima’s back. Kashima is the big spoon sometimes, but Kamo just wiggles too much to hold on to all night.
What is their favourite non-sexual activity? - Watch movies or play games. Kashima usually falls asleep when watching TV or movies for too long, but Kamo is OK with it because Kashima falls asleep while holding him. If he gets bored, he just wakes Kashima up and makes him play a game with him.
Who uses all the hot water? - Kashima does it sometimes. But he usually does it deliberately to stick it to Kamo for a prank he pulled.
What is the most trivial thing they fight over? - One of Kamo’s pranks that went too far probably. Especially if it involved Kashima sitting on something or Kamo putting something into Kashima’s drink. It doesn’t bother him on a good day, but he snaps at Kamo when he’s tired.
Who does most of the cleaning? - Kashima. He usually just cleans as he goes, rather than having a big cleaning day. Kamo waits until their house really needs a clean to do anything, because Kashima does alot of the trivial stuff to keep everything lookin neat.
What has a season pass in their DVR? - Some sitcom that Kamo likes, or a show on the comedy channel.
Who controls the Netflix queue? - Kamo, because Kashima doesn’t care. He usually falls asleep when they’re watching a netflix series anyway, and snores until Kamo pokes him awake.
Who calls up the super when the heat’s not working? - Kashima usually, because Kamo can’t explain whats wrong. Kashima can be a bit more forceful usually too, and get things done faster whereas Kamo always politely says its ok and not to rush.
Who steals the blankets? - Kamo tries, but if he tugs too hard on the blanket, Kashima yanks it away and wraps it around himself.
Who leaves their stuff around? - Kamo. Kashima just leaves his stuff where it lays too, because it will get lost if anyone but Kamo tries to move it.
Who remembers to buy the milk? - Kashima usually, if its a normal grocery day. However, if Kamo knows he’s about to run out right before he pours himself some cereal, he will go out and get some right away, without getting anything else they need. He’s a very directed shopper, and always wastes money by buying things at the convenience store rather than the grocery store.
Who remembers anniversaries? - Kashima, because he actually writes them down on the calendar each year when they switch to a new one. He never makes Kamo feel bad for forgetting, and he always tries to make the day special. Quiet, but special, so he can have Kamo all to himself.