When I was in SF I matched with this guy on Tinder or FB dating. We didn't end up getting to meet up..but we texted and now we're talking almost every night. I like his vibe plus he's hottt AF. He's got this old soul like he's my age but into the greatful dead.. (and Morrissy and The Cure)...ect.
He wants me to come see him...and stay with him at his house(he lives in Oakland) for the weekend. I'm 99.% on board with going but 1% of me is like Nooooo don't doooo it Nicole.
I need someone to tell me this is a good idea or some to tell me it's a badddd idea.
I mean if things go sideways, worst case I get murdered ..or if we don't click I go to a hotel ? Right?








