May 20, 2024
All these bi and gay women are so "adventurous" and "spontaneous" in their dating app bios.
Yet nobody ever asks anyone out 😆
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All these bi and gay women are so "adventurous" and "spontaneous" in their dating app bios.
Yet nobody ever asks anyone out 😆
This weekend has been fun.
Friday night - met up with a new guy..fun times /cool guy.
Saturday- ran errands, met up with another date, went to the food truck carts in OC, had tacos, drinks and listened to a band.
Sunday - met up for a 2nd date with a guy from a few weeks ago. we met in NW Portland. Went to this weird artsy neiche museum. And then food and drinks.
All around good weekend. I also started watching House of Dragons (Im.always late to.the party) it's not as good as Game of Thrones, but I like it!!
It's officially my birthday week. I get free shit this week! And a few days after my birthday, I'm getting another tattoo.
A ✨Collection✨
So I've recently entered the dating world for the first time in my life and since none of my friends know anyone to set me up with I decided to try out FB dating, it was a mistake. This one guy and I matched and we talked for a while last night, it was okay, he complemented me a lot which made me uncomfortable, but I thought it was just me because I can't take a complement about how I look. Well I get up this morning, take the kiddo to school, take our rescue kitten to the vet and then went shopping, the guy messaged me during all of this and I just hadn't gotten back to him. And with in an hour he messaged me again sending me this,
"I'm sorry for wasting your time gorgeous and bothering you I want just hoping for a chance to sweep a gorgeous gal off her feet and treat her like the queen she is"
Which like on face value might not seem like a red flag, but that's a big fucking red flag. He was flipping out and trying to guilt trip me after less than an hour of me not responding!! That's some obsessive and possessive behavior right there my friends and we do not stan that kind of behavior irl. Then after I told him I was busy he very quickly went into tearing himself down to try and get me to feel bad I think. So yeah, I'm over FB dating and I'm just gonna stick with my fictional men, I mean who can compare to this?
FB dating has two options; dating all men or just trans men, but there's no "cis men only" option.
So New Mexico.....I like it here....I legit would/will come back. I 100% need to see more stuff then just two and a half days allows.
Also I met this cool dude here that I wouldn't mind seeing again ;) ;)
Sooo got here Thursday night, got the rental car, drove to the hotel , got settled in, changed my clothes...then got a text from Cody that he was in the lobby.
*Met Cody on FB dating a day or two before coming to NM, I added Albuquerque to my profile and he popped up as a suggestion and I liked his profile, similar things in common plus he's cute...so I sent himma like and we matched. .we talked on FB dating for a little bit, then I gave him my number and we texted until I got to NM*
Anyway, Thursday night..went to a few breweries Cody likes, had a few drinks, then went back to my hotel to hang out.. talked a lot, laughed a lot, made out and thennnn sexxxx. Sooooo good. Remember how I was all "Boo hoo hoo" I'm probably never going to find anyone that fucks me as good as Oreo did? Wellll Cody delivers and then some. I was super satisfied. SUPER.
We were both hungry after lots of sex, so we go to Whataburger and get food and then go eat.
Just reallly,really good times Thursday night.
Friday - I go do tourist stuff during the daytime and then at night, Cody wanted to know if I was down to hang more? I'm like fuck yessss.
So he gets me at my hotel, we go to a bar/restaurant he likes called Gecko..he eats. I drink.
Then we go on a drive out to Sandia (not the Peak, just the Crest) there is snow up there. So my plan of going to Sandia Peak is notttt happening. But the Crest was cool..even with snow and ice, we made it uppp there, cause Cody knows how to drive really well. If it were me alone. I would not have (also it was really dark/late).
Anyway, drove back to the hotel, hung out more..listening to Music talking and then more sexxxx. Goddd I like him.
So this is my last full day here..going to Meow Wolf over in Santa Fe, Cody suggested me taking the back roads and going through Madrid to get there. He's busy today/this afternoon with Band practice. But tonight...will I see him.again?
I hope so...
When I was in SF I matched with this guy on Tinder or FB dating. We didn't end up getting to meet up..but we texted and now we're talking almost every night. I like his vibe plus he's hottt AF. He's got this old soul like he's my age but into the greatful dead.. (and Morrissy and The Cure)...ect.
He wants me to come see him...and stay with him at his house(he lives in Oakland) for the weekend. I'm 99.% on board with going but 1% of me is like Nooooo don't doooo it Nicole.
I need someone to tell me this is a good idea or some to tell me it's a badddd idea.
I mean if things go sideways, worst case I get murdered ..or if we don't click I go to a hotel ? Right?
