#tinyryder

[anystalker707]

I was tagged by @tinyryder to spell my url out with songs and then tag as many people as letters :]

A - All Out Life - Slipknot

N - Na Na Na - MCR

Y - Young and Doomed - Frank Iero and The Future Violents

S - Sweet Child o' Mine - Guns N' Roses

T - .tragician. - Frank Iero and the Cellabration

A - All That I've Got - The Used

L - Lovesong - The Cure

K - Kletka - Molchat Doma

E - Early Sunsets Over Monroeville - MCR

R - Remember The Name - Fort Minor

7 - SHIVER - The Gazette

0 - Zero Zero - Gerard Way

7 - Seek & Destroy - Metallica

@angie-migel @nobody7796 @starnerd24 @/anyone

[lifewithchronicpain-original]

Just need to vent. My sister brought up the fact that I don’t “help” my chronic illnesses because I don’t exercise or eat well enough or drink enough water, even though she’s never around me for more than a few days at a time. Wanna know how she knows this? Because she spent a few hours with Dr. Google and she listens to podcasts! Like you’re not a doctor, you’re not MY doctor and you have no idea or appreciation for how hard all of this is. I just want some compassion, I don’t need to be fixed

Please, vent all you want, I’ll do so too because Oh I know the type, my older sister is just like that. As we’ve gotten older I’ve learned to dance around these issues, and at least like she has gotten better about it in the sense I know she believes I’m disabled. Though I know she thinks when i’m in my room i must be always doing nothing. Most of the time when i was in my room when she was here, it was to make gifts. She just can’t help but having something to say, and sometimes it’s shit I can shrug off or agree with and other times I’m just like in my head “don’t start a fight it’s not worth it”. Although there was one point when she said she read about deet causing autism and I couldn’t help but react incredulously. So she’s like, oh you won’t even listen to the reason you’ll just dismiss it? All I said was autism has been around a lot longer than we ever started processing deet and left it at that. She’s someone who used to be fully anti-vax but at least will consent to one of those slower vaccine schedules because she doesn’t want a bunch of vaccines for reasons, and it’s silly, but i’m just like at least my nephew will be vaccinated, i won’t push it you know?

[actuallydyspraxic]

Hi I need some compassion/advice. Whenever I’m sick (and this happens quite a lot bc I work with kids) my executive functioning immediately just leaves and so even things like picking up clothes I’ve thrown on the floor are Too Much and as a result, my room becomes a disaster area during the week or so I’m sick. Then when I feel better, I feel worse again bc now I have this mess I need to clean.

Hey Anon,

I’m sorry this reply is coming so late, I hope you’re feeling better now! It sounds like you’re low on “spoons”, which some people find helpful to describe exhaustion. It tends to be a phrase for chronic fatigue, but (as far as I know!) it also can be applied to disabilities like ours. If you haven’t heard of Spoon Theory before, I think it might  help you feel a bit more valid!

When you’re ill, you’re low on energy. Things that might not usually take up that energy suddenly will. Not to mention it’s no wonder you might feel miserable, you’ve just been unwell and unable to keep your space clean! Just because you’ve gotten over a cold doesn’t mean the stress of having been unwell for a while won’t get you down. 

My advice would be that once you realise “oh, I’m starting to get sick...” you try to do small things over the next few days that make your life as easy as you can for future you. This could be:

 Putting a laundry basket next to your bed so that your clothes (whether they’re clean or not) can go straight into it (and then put out of sight until you’re ready to deal with ‘em)

Changing your sheets so you can be poorly in a nice-smelling bed

Leaving encouraging notes for yourself around your home

Wishing you good health! Do our followers have any more advice?

- Mod Tea

[gaskarth-omg]

Two Celebrities: Alex Gaskarth or Zack Merrick

alex!! at one point my crush on him was w o w real bad

put two celebrities in my ask and i’ll say which i think is hotter

[dm-eddie]

Eeee can I have Joyce + light purple (like pastel/lavender/lilac/neon/etc)

Anything for mom

Want a mood board?

[willel]

tinyryder replied to your post “Thoughts on the theory that the American that the Russians have in...”

I still believe Brenner is Dead Dead. Given that everyone calls him by his last name (minus El obvs) he would fit into the “no one with a B name is safe” category. Also when we see him in season 2, I definitely think he was one of Kali’s manifestations. Something about how he talks and what he says is meant to trigger something in El.  And given her later manipulation of El, she’s not above doing that to get what she wants.

Kali produced a hallucination of Brenner to manipulate El yes (because Kali believed she was helping El ‘heal’), it wasn’t Kali who originally claimed Brenner was alive. It was Ray. El is/was too scared to confirm it, but some writers and directors have kinda implied he is still around.

Whether he’s dead dead or still alive, he’s destined to die so he still fits the B-curse

[billyhargrovetrash]

Joyce Byers headcanon please!

I actually have two for her!

Joyce used to be on the rifle team in high school. She was their top shooter and won multiple first place prizes in competitions. When she had kids, she was the one who taught them how to safely handle guns, even if Jonathan never kept up with the hobby.

Joyce also really enjoys cake decorating. She had dreams to open her own bakery some day, but those fell by the wayside when she married Lonnie. For birthdays or fun, though, she’ll still occasionally go all out on a cake because she finds it relaxing and to keep up with her skills.

[adorabbbit]

Veronica Sawyer

all of her line delivery is perfect.... i love winona

not her fault but the fact that the ich luge line was cut in the boiler room :/

“heather my love, there’s a new sheriff in town”

jd, duke and veronica had potential to be good friends

dukesaw thank u

chansaw

she’s bisexual (but that’s pretty much canon right)

she’s a lot more morally grey than people like to assume about her

sarah smiles p!atd, my boy billie eilish