Tom "Half-Hearted If You Want to Dance" Bertram vs Henry "Find me a Dance Partner" Tilney
Tom Bertram (Mansfield Park by Jane Austen)
Sees Fanny Price not dancing at the ball that's for her CORRECTION: her first ball!
Drags a chair next to her and starts reading the newspaper
Says if you want to dance I'll dance with you
Fanny politely declines because she's been conditioned to be a people-pleaser and knows Tom doesn't really want to dance
Uses dancing with Fanny as an excuse to get out of playing cards with his Aunt Norris, Mrs. Rushworth and Dr. Grant
Complains about how annoying it is to be "volun-told" to play cards
Fanny was very willing to dance, but how grateful can you be when it's done reluctantly to get out of doing a favor for someone else?
Henry Tilney (Northanger Abbey by Jane Austen)
Goes to Bath to prepare housing on behalf of his father for their family trip
While he's in town, goes to the Lower Rooms (at the Assembly where dances are held) and asks the master of ceremonies to introduce him to any young lady that needs a dance partner
Is a very friendly and witty conversationalist with Catherine Morland
He had no obligation to do any of this! He just did it out of the goodness of his heart and because he loves dancing!
The drastic difference between a selfish and generous heart.
















