#trans refs

[gh0stlyreferences]

[toxxicpill]

Transman selling some old ‘girl’ clothes!! 

Please Message on tumblr IM me if Interested!! Red Dress was bought but never worn besides try on purposes. The ribbing on the dress looks Amazing when worn, it hugs the shape so well! Blue shirt worn a couple of times, it says it’s a large but really doesn’t fit like one imo. fits more like a medium or a small. Necklace was bought for me by an ex, been looking to get rid of it for a while

[easy-eggsy]

echhh I think i'm trans but i don't know anymore my dysphoria comes and goes. and i'm afraid to transition let alone come out to anyone... ughhh

the important thing is what makes you comfortable. transitioning physically isn’t the only part of it; as long as you feel emotionally trans then that’s all that should matter, but if you feel the need to physically identify as another gender, then go right ahead. ive only come out to a few people that im fluid and pan and out of those few only a couple actually respect it.

itll be hard if you decide that your public identity and how people perceive you matters enough to work to change their perspectives on you, but in all honesty, it’s the emotional part of being trans that matters the most. if you feel like a different gender, then YOU ARE. you don’t have to change anything about yourself to identify as trans. a lot of people dont understand that preop or even deciding to do nothing whether that be surgery or how you dress, doesn’t make you trans. thats bullshit. you can be whatever you want without changing anything. if you want to physically change, that’s another thing, but in any case its what matters to you personally that counts, not anyone elses opinion unless you decide to let it matter.

and its okay to feel some type of uncertainty about it all. its healthy. and its hard, but try not to be afraid; people should accept you for who you are- if youre scared people you know will deny it, they either a) shouldn’t be your friends b) should be open to education about it all to further understand who you are and be your friend through it. its okay, youre not alone. i love you and good luck !! ! ! !!