tbh most of my transHarmful ids feel super subjective. like if society honestly changed to honoring people's ability to have easier access to informed consent I'd be considered pretty damn mild in my cravings and interests
like I don't care about maiming or killing or torture or whatever. I just happened to have my desired labeled as negative and bad and harmful. enabling someone to reach their goals is really not a big deal at all imo. who the fuck cares if there's some risk or some negative impacts. this world is far too risk adverse for how much it encourages wielding violence against enemies

















