Can you tell me a little more about Venus square Pluto? I've had this transit for what seems like forever....I haven't found much info about it- I haven't seen anything going into actual detail.
Things I've experienced so far
- ocd like tendencies? Getting BADDD.
- stalkerish behavior. I'm talking about I feel like Joe from you... I feel crazy. I've been dealing with a lot of weird s*xual issues because of retroactive jealousy. I just feel crazy.
- I am a currently with a scorpio stellium man who has Pluto conjunct venus natally. I've been with him for a year now, Mind you- I'm also a scorpio stellium. LIKE OH MY GODDDDDDDDDDDDDDS THE POWER ISSUES ARE CRAZYYYYYY ITS SO DAMN INTENSE. The obsessiveness, jealousy, deception oh my god.
- really poor self esteem. I've been comparing myself to women lately - something I used to not really do. I also find myself obsessing over my appearance/ how I am perceived.
I'm very curious & hope you respond :) this makes all the scorpio energy x 9 billion. I hope you have a good day:)
Venus square Pluto transit
Hii! It took me ages to write and this has been sitting in my drafts for too long now. I apologise for replying so late!
Yes, Venus square Pluto transit can feel incredibly intense because Venus is all about love, pleasure, value, softness, connection, while Pluto is basically the underground basement of the psyche; power, control, compulsion, fear, obsession, transformation. When they clash by square, it often doesn’t feel light or simple at all. It can feel like your desires are being dragged into the dark and asked to confess everything.
So what you’re describing honestly does fit the symbolism. Venus square Pluto can stir up jealousy, possessiveness, suspicion, compulsive thinking, and that awful feeling of being unable to “just relax” in love. It can make people hyper aware of power dynamics, of who wants more, who holds more, who’s hiding something or who might leave first. Sometimes it doesn’t even start with the other person being shady. Sometimes the transit just presses on old (unhealed) wounds and suddenly your nervous system starts acting up.
The ocd-like spiraling, the comparing yourself to other women, the fixation on how you’re perceived, the weird stalkerish urge to check, to know and to control the unknown, all of that has Pluto written all over it. Pluto doesn’t really do casual. It wants total honesty, depth and the absolute truth. But the shadow side is that it can make us try to force certainty where there isn’t any. And then Venus on the other hand, who just wants to be loved and chosen, ends up panicking because she feels exposed. That’s usually where the self esteem stuff gets louder too. Venus square Pluto can absolutely bring up worth wounds, like am I enough, am I desirable, am I replaceable, am I being compared or am I losing power here?
And since you mentioned your partner has Pluto conjunct Venus natally, that can make the whole dynamic even more magnetic, consuming and loaded. That placement already tends to carry intensity in love, deep attachment and sometimes a very real struggle with control, trust, jealousy or emotional extremity. Put that into a relationship with another scorpion/plutonic person and subtlety can kind of pack its bags and leave the room. The bond can feel profound and transformative, even fated at times, but it can also become a mirror for all the parts of both people that don’t want to be seen too closely. Which is beautiful in a way a storm is beautiful from inside a safe house.
What matters most with this transit is not feeding the spiral. Because Venus square Pluto can tempt you into digging, testing, investigating, comparing, checking, obsessing, trying to outwit your own fear. But Pluto is never satisfied by half truths or compulsive control. It only softens when you get honest with yourself about what’s actually being touched underneath the surface. Is this really about your partner or is this touching an older fear of abandonment, not being chosen, not being enough, not being safe in love? That’s the real underworld this transit wants to lead you through.
So no, you’re not crazy at all. You’re probably in a very Plutonian cycle where desire and fear are tangled together like they’ve been in a secret toxic situationship for years which can get annoying, but also deeply revealing. The task is to stay aware, stay grounded and not romanticise the chaos just because it feels intense. Intensity is not always intimacy, even though Pluto loves to pretend it’s some grand spiritual masterpiece.
I hope you’re doing well and that you made it through the transit safely and have been able to take time to heal! 🌸🤍













