is… making intense eye contact from across the room while you’re both socializing and smiling with other people. It’s “they can have you now, but I’m smiling because I get you all to myself later.”
I personally love the way 5th house overlays play out when you have a lot of Pluto contacts — it gives a lighthearted social flirty nature to something that’s deep and dark and intense. It’s a beautiful blend of two very different energies.
It makes me think of:
• sleeping over at a friends house and staying up after everyone else falls asleep to talk about deep life questions.
• young love that is as possessive as it is exhilarating and fun
• going to the art studio after hours
• experiencing creative highs connected with this person
• making out in the fire escape of an art gallery
• the thrill of the chase, over and over again
• dancing in the kitchen at midnight, drunk and in love
Im going through some shit right now, so im gonna talk about and make it educational because I have a saggitarius stellium and 2 9th house placements
Karmic relationships are unforgettable, basically a curse with a different name. I think of the the song
"Without a cure" by Natewantstobattle
Because of the lines "you're a curse and your all mine, I can feel you all the time"
The entire song just hits my soul cause I finally can imagine what it's actually like to feel that deeply because I've gotten really close to that.
♤♡◇♧
I had a guy where this was our synastry:
My venus conjunct his pluto in his 12th house
My venus in his 12th house
His sun in my 12th house conjunct my ascendant
My cap eros conjunct his cap ascendant
Moon-mars sign synastry
Eros-ascendant sign synastry (again ik tf)
His lust asteroid was also conjunct my mars
HIS SUN WAS CONJUNCT MY NORTHNODE I THOUGHT HE'D GROW WITH ME
I want to FUCKING RAGE, we were never together, but it felt like more than friends, and he never admitted that even once.
The reason why Im leaving it behind is because we were talking about something to do with our futures, and he ended up telling me that he thought I "didn't have the skill to do that." (Amongst other things, but this was the final straw and triggered me bad)
But I still want to tell him all my weird dreams after I write them down in my journal, I still want him close to me and to tell me he loves me. That I mean something to him and that I'm not just a backup or a sad background.
The majority of karmic relationships are not lifelong lessons. They are sometimes people who are meant to hurt you while you try to love them as best as you can in a short amount of time. Even if they don't want to. It's just happens. You have to learn to be true to yourself and leave. You deserve the world.
🫠WHAT SHOULD YOU DO TO MOVE ON?🫠
Continue like they were never in it, get into a different cycle without them. You can mourn once you have laid out a strong enough foundation to let yourself cry and fall back on without relapsing. You'll feel the emptiness they've left behind for the rest of your life, and you'll have to fight yourself every step of the way. Everyone talks about breaking the cycle, but it's not simple. It does, however, get easier.
I'm still in the beginning stages and crying every few days when I think about him 🙃
I made a playlist for mine here lmao
I've already implemented my routine, and I have myself to give me the emotional comfort I need + spiritual guidance (you might need something different, I go alone cause I got Aries NN 12th house conjunct ascendant)
Pluto-Venus: almost in every article it's stated that Pluto who has the upper hand. Yes and no. Not in the way you imagine. Pluto goes through pain after the breakup to the point it pushes them to kill their old version to create a new one that doesn't relate to the pain. This is 100% a survival mechanism, and the glow-up Plutonians have is just a side effect. However, Venus resists change out of fear of leaving their comfort zone, rendering them more suspectable to pain, and requiring more time to get over Pluto, as well as risking stagnation in their love lives. Pluto's pain is intense but short-lived, while Venus' pain is less intense but stays for long. This is where Pluto's power comes from.
Moon-Sun: it's always about how the moon is in their feels, while the Sun is the leader. No, almost in every Sun-Moon case I've read, witnessed or experienced, it's the moon who controls everything behind the scenes. The moon really has the Sun in the palm of their hand. The moon is really the Sun's soft spot. It appears as if the Sun is leading, but it's one look from the Moon, and the Sun is already down bad, ready to risk it all, go to war, and conquer a whole city for the Moon!
Hi there! Wanted to say you’re my favorite page on here and i love reading your work.
I wanted to ask what it might mean for me if i have an aquarius ascendant conjuncting pluto (in the 12th house) opposing a leo venus in the 7th house (conjunct my descendant) in a solar return chart!
Thank you so much and I hope it’s not too much of an ask ❤️
SR Ascendant conjunct Pluto, opposite Venus, conjunct Descendant☀️
Thank you so much that's very sweet of you ❤️🌻this looks like a year where relationships and personal transformation are major themes
Venus in Leo conjunct the Descendant in the 7th house often brings attention to partnerships, dating, commitment, friendships, and how you connect with other people. Relationships may feel more important than usual and some people experience significant romantic developments during years like this
What really grabs my attention is Pluto conjunct the Aquarius Ascendant from the 12th house opposing Venus
Pluto tends to transform whatever it touches. In a Solar Return, this can show a year of deep inner change, healing, self discovery or confronting things that have been hidden beneath the surface
Because Pluto is opposing Venus, relationships may act as a catalyst for that growth. Someone could enter your life and change your perspective or an existing relationship could go through a period of transformation.
I've also noticed that Pluto Venus contacts can intensify emotions. Attraction may feel stronger than usual but so can themes involving trust, vulnerability, attachment or power dynamics
Overall, I'd see this as a year that asks who are you becoming and who do you want beside you as you become that person?
The relationship themes look important but the deeper story seems to be the personal transformation happening beneath them❤️
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For those who have pluto in the ascendant be it in D1 or D9 chart. Have ever faced any relationship that ended without reason but it ended so sudden that you don't even know how to react at all ?
Pluto dominant people have extremely deep emotions that no one knows except themselves. They don't even talk about their emotions to anyone but kept it boiling within themselves which one day exploded in a very destructive ways.
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Otherworldly knowledge.
Just from artist perspective.
I write about Venus-Pluto contacts in the birth chart, what it means and how these contacts can manifest themselves in the native’s life.
”Pluto is an impersonal, unconscious force in our lives that is the deep and primal urge for control, our desire to stay alive, our fear of death and simultaneous obsession with it. Pluto often manifests as an attempt to control through separating and establishing dominance through preying on the energy of other people and other things. Pluto is extremely magnetic, fascinating and potent. The act of devouring something is plutonic in nature - it’s the death (and the life) force.”
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Any tips on how to deal with a Pluto-Venus aspect? Mine is only soft however I find myself obsessing so much over my love-interests to a point where I would almost consider myself a stalker..
Hello!
You and me are both in the dark here.
First, decipher and really get to know your Venus. Then study, research it in-depth. Learn how to self love by using your Venus and its position right.
Then work on your Pluto. In which sign is it, in which house?
Now work with that, transform what needs to be transformed, let go of any shame, guilt and resentment you have in regards to house topics.
And how to deal with obsessive tendencies especially in regards to potential/romantic interests?
Just accept it as one of your habits. Get comfortable with the fact that this is just something that you tend to do. Use certain tactics to battle it like: imagine a red light whenever their image pops out in your head. Or you could just imagine yourself sweeping the floor and you sweep their imagine along with other trash. Does this make any sense?
Refocus your thoughts on another person that you admire. It can be a friend, a family member or a role model that you admire, because of their characteristics.
And say to yourself more often that your infatuation is just a habit. Just like you brush your teeth, go cycling etc.
With time every wound, infatuation disappears. Remember that even your past crushes are now only a memory.
And just get actively involved in a project so you channel your energy and passion into something else.
