#treelet

[jageunyeoujari]

treelet

cw: eating disorder, suicide & abuse...

Yo, as your pocket vegan of color, you are NOT wrong and their rep sounds like an uncompassionate self-centered fool.

ty angel! 😘 lmao like his reply when i said that i know v*gans of color who criticize white v*gans for their racism was “v*gans of color are not a monolith” but also pulled the “I HAVE SOME POC FRIENDS WHO DISAGREE W YOU :)!!!!!!!!!” card. honestly if his next reply is going to be dismissive, i’m gonna link him to an article on how to tell if you’re in a cult. like the insistence that any other viewpoint that challenges their way of thinking is automatically wrong & we can't listen to the individual only the group matters & you're basically a sinner singlehandedly ruining the world for not following their doctrine? CULT-ISH! contrast that w the non-partisan asian american group i’m interested in which i don’t agree w fully on everything but they obviously value my being there & they encourage differing view points & actually have concrete plans to help ppl.

like if you & your fellow whites first reaction to a new woc asking them to be more considerate for her needs is to shame her & say what she needs doesn’t matter in the Big Picture & if she were actually a Good Person, she should just follow their lead & then when she gives you more chances to explain yourself, you further say her needs don’t matter & shame her for not being as Upright & Moral as you are? you’re racist & got real cult vibes & that’s that on that.

[dangercupcakemurdericing]

treelet replied to your post: “So today’s the day of the informal hearing with regards to my landlord...”:

Good luck, sweetheart. You can do it!

Thank you! <3 x 1000

[jageunyeoujari]

treelet

treelet cw: eating disorder,...

i love you and yes, white activists, even the “radicals” pull this nonsense all the time. i’m so sorry you had to deal with this. *hugs*

tysm!!!! god, i foolishly hope again & again that white leftists won’t be racist & misogynistic towards me. i give them chances to explain themselves & am so willing to give them the benefit of the doubt & keep doubting my own judgment & feelings & anger in favor of their pov. i apologize & acknowledge what i do wrong. but do they give me an ounce of the same consideration? ofc not. (altho against my better judgment AGAIN hoping for a good response to my recent, most level-headed email. but infinitesimal small chance he wont either ignore me or totally dismiss everything i say AGAIN.)

woodenrosebouquet

cw: eating disorder, suicide & abuse...

you weren’t wrong, it way crossed the line for white people to say that shit in a group like that

ty!!! (& i saw your other reply too btw.) & i am just.... laughing abt the irony that they’re so concerned abt the welfare of animals but a mentally ill asian woman’s health is whatever? hm! curious! strange how that stinks of the same ol’ racist dehumanizing train of thought that asians aren’t as important as animals. i even linked him to something that explains how chinese ppl were/are dehumanized for supposedly eating ‘barbaric’ meat like dogs & rats. (ofc not only chinese but all asians were/are dehumanized for their food but thought maybe one article would be enough.) let’s see if he responds at all to that lmao

[dangercupcakemurdericing]

ineedarendezvous replied to your post “I’m going to a makeup master class with Warrior Bard, I’m so excited!...”

“are you too good to play locally?” Is so...bitter resentful passive aggressive and unsupportive

Right? Especially since they know I’m doing more travel now because I won’t be able to do it next year. And I’ve missed exactly one local event.

ineedarendezvous replied to your post “I’m going to a makeup master class with Warrior Bard, I’m so excited!...”

Wow that is super awful. African Violet to the max.

I feel petty and jealous and small for feeling like they are incapable of being happy for me for even one moment, but it really feels like that.

treelet replied to your post “I’m going to a makeup master class with Warrior Bard, I’m so excited!...”

parasitic, yo

I know and it’s killing me inside. Admittedly, I haven’t strongly asserted boundaries like, no me squeeing about my research is not the time for them to demand me to educate them, and stuff, so maybe that is the first step before I do anything drastic. And they are fine in person just constantly like this online.

[dangercupcakemurdericing]

treelet replied to your post “Salad is a blessing.”

"just so people in the midwest don't get confused" LMAO SIS

I just feel the clarity is very important, because some of the things I see are not a blessing. I think some of them are why the aliens don’t talk to us.

[dangercupcakemurdericing]

treelet replied to your post “sometimes I feel like I reblog too much Black people focused stuff....”

The real world stifles Blackness at every turn. You deserve a space to celebrate, explore, and revel in your Self. <3

<3 You are the best, my friend. 

I sometimes forget how draining it is to constantly be worried about and managing white people’s feelings and expectations because I’m so used to doing it, it’s almost second nature, like grinding my teeth.

[dangercupcakemurdericing]

treelet replied to your post “ I just want a therapist who will not invalidate my feelings about...”

A goddamn unicorn, really.

a unicorn might be easier to find.

I don’t necessarily need someone who is also black and queer, just someone who is willing to maybe admit that their personal life experiences aren’t the be all and all of life experiences.

[dangercupcakemurdericing]

treelet replied to your post “In other news, I met a girl.”

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (so cute)

Amazingly so. <3

She might be staying at my place in a couple of months for the big event my part of medieval group is hosting.