To my best friend.
TW:// death
I love my best friend. His name was Jon. His last name was Do. Lol isn’t that crazy.
He was the life of all events.
He was expressive towards things he loves and things he hated. No filter what so ever.
He is my best friend.
On may 28th he passed away. He wasn’t a guy that lost to cancer. In fact, it was the process of healing that had this turnout.
He always defined himself as cancerous. He knew it was coming. However someone said something to him that I think did ease his mind.
“You’re not cancer. Cancer doesn’t mean you are death. You are Jon. I can leave this world at any moment. They can too. But it doesn’t mean we should define ourselves to what feels like is holding us back.”
I wish I could tell him that he was more than that. There’s so many things I wish I could’ve done for him. There are still regrets in my life that I feel even to this day. I wish I could protect and love him more.
Idk what I was trying to say about this tbh. After reading in the surprise event from Sulli and then Hara. It hurts to see them go in such a tragic way. At the end of the day, the people closest to them probably wish the same thing. That they hoped they did more than what they have done. Fan are probably thinking the same thing. People who have truly supported them and have given them unconditional love were well heard.
Sulli and Hara only wanted more protection for females, more independence, more value and love for females. We can still work hard to what they wish to do.
This isn’t a shout-out to females only. Feminism is spread out to all gender and orientation. We can still learn to love more if we wish to.
Jon’s wish was for more equality. He came out to his parents and they fully accepted him. He did all sorts of things and didn’t let cancer define him.
Same with Sulli and Hara, they are woman of power, intelligence, and creativity. They are woman full of love and kindness.
Let’s keep working hard to a beautiful future.
Thank you Hara.
Thank you Sulli.
Thank you Jon.
I love you.