A finally made ooc rant because I am no longer really here and dgaf.
It has taken me years to write this. It as a formerly seasoned rper I am telling my tale.
I loved my time here on Tumblr, not that I won't ever come back, but im preferring discord now. Over the years, I've had rp friends come and go. Some good friends @therowenamacleod( -Love you Brynn)and some fakes. Some who broke my heart...Which brings me to this. Don't give your heart easily to people.
At,the end of the day you have to look after yourself. Don't put too much into other people. Don't do things you're not comfy with. I made that mistake too many times here. Also let people earn your trust. Don't give it away as easily as I did, and it ended up costing me multiple times.
Don't spread hate, like I did years ago to a person regret doing it to, merely bc we had the same idea. And merely bc a friend chose her over me. Which was hurtful but never her fault.
Don't let yourself become besties with people and let them in too much. Bc writing is supposed to be fun not too irl. Bc it costs friendships. And sometimes you put too much on those people.
Don't agree to be exclusives with someone when you know you cannot do it. I hurt a friend over this and he's I regret it. And dont force exclusivity on others. It just effs stuff up and potentially hurts a friendship. Just be honest with your writing partners. I MESSED this up once with a good friend and I have regrets.
And dont let people manipulate you. Rp was supposed to be fun and they ruined it.
Don't hate others who play your muse. Bc they're awesome people most of the time.
Don't date rp partners...it equals disaster
Do I regret stuff? Do I feel pain I loosing people? Yes I do. Do I wish I could have fixed sh*t a with people? Of course but thar is growing up and moving on.
Just have fun writing
Expect people to leave and new ones to come. And literallt enjoy writing.
With thay said im happily rping on discord and just got married. Just hoping this reaches one person who doesn't make mistakes.
Also I am sorry for anyone in the past I've caused issues for. Rp should be fun never the drama I dealt with and inadvertently made.
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