For spiral research! I mostly grab spirals that I think my partners would like, but I always end up with a few of my own preferences layered in. Like one partner enjoys the flashing porn and words type gifs, but I'm always picky about the wording (like avoiding anything that genders the process in a way I find uncomfortable). Another prefers more motion, and I try to look for spirals that have different types of motion and eye-catching colors. (I think I favor high contrasts?) - Turq
ooooh yes yes yes i enjoy a lot of those parameters!
thank u so much for ur contributions!
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(same on the gendering thing omg. i can't do "good girl" or pictures of women)














