#tweeky

[supahcraig]

[daz4i]

i love, my buddies, they're good, and amazing, and they're so great, and i love them a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot!!!!!!!!

[daz4i]

post: mentions “furry friends”

what the post means: cats, dogs, idk

what i think: tweek...

[liguedesofficiersdetatcivil]

[waynedidit]

Who wore it better? #Tweeky or #theresamay ? #snap #helmethair #waynedidit #buckrodgers #toriesout #vote #no

[pacificpikachu]

how did you afford all of those pokemon plushes :00

I don’t actually have that much money (I make $11.50 an hour, part-time), but I will confess that I am privileged and lucky in a lot of ways. I make a decent amount reselling Pokémon stuff that I get while I’m searching for items for my own collection, and I’m lucky that I am able to live with my parents and thus my living costs aren’t very high (though I have a lot of rescued pets and a big chunk of my paycheck goes to feeding them). A huge aspect of why I’ve gathered so much is simply time, though--I’ve been collecting for a long time, and it adds up quickly! I am very careful about how I budget my money so I can continue collecting.

[giggites]

"bae" ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) i knew it.

quag is my bae FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[mental-health-advice]

tweeky pt 1 so my moms saying shes going to be moving things in my closet so she can make a place for her to sleep in my room being 'itll be easier to wake me up for school' and i really. REALLY. dont like this. 1, shes inavading and changing my only safe place. the only place i feel comfortable 2, im going through puberty. i need my own privacy 3, im afraid shell go through my things when im asleep. shes gone through personal things before 4, ill have to sleep fully covered all the time.

tweeky part 2/2 in which im not used to. shes seriously messing everything up. i dont like anything in my room being messed with and i know shell want todo al these different things im going to feel uncomfortable with and ive expressed my discomfort with it and she completely ignored me, she does this all the time, she never cares about what i think. this is making me go crazy. this is my only place i feel comfortable, shes going to change it and invade it, maybe even go through my things.

Hi sweetie, 

I can only begin to imagine how this must make you feel. It isnt normal for a parent to share a bedroom with a child that is no longer pubescent. Saying 'it'll be easier to wake you up for school' doesnt make sense at all, since as long as youre in the same house, the effort to wake you would would be the same. There may be another reason as to why she wants/needs to move into your room that she is keeping to herself. 

I would recommend sitting down with her, explaining why you do not want her to move into your bedroom, why you feel it is pointless and let her know that youre no longer a little child, that you need your own space and if you share a bedroom you'll never have your own space again. Ask her to explain why she wants to move into your bedroom which she has a perfectly good bedroom to herself already. You need to show her the boundaries that you have and let her know that she cannot cross them whenever she feels like it, especially when it comes to your own bedroom. 

If this doesnt work then I would suggest talking to a family member or family friend or a teacher that you trust about how uncomfortable this is making you feel, and that now you feel you dont have anywhere in your home that you genuinely feel safe, because it is unfair for that safeness to be taken away from you, and if she doesnt listen to you its best to tell someone else that you trust so they can talk to her about it.

I really hope this helps sweetie, and i hope everything works out okay for you.

Lots of love,Libby xo