A big Polyamory Red Flag is when people have no intention of remaining polyamorous, and expect you to "settle down".
The decision to begin your journey into polyamory is a big one. Sometimes it involves going slowly, and at other times throwing yourself in headfirst. But one thing I know for sure is that when you know, you know for sure. For some of us, polyamory just makes sense.
But sometimes, when you're certain about something, it can be difficult to see that other people don't feel the same way.
When it comes to Polyamory Red Flags, something that's important to recognise is when you're dating someone who, for whatever reason, simply isn't willing or able to continue on this journey with you.
You need to be aware of Pretend and Uncertain Polyamory.