Most of us are searching for things that are right in front of us but for some reason we always want to run back to what is familiar to us because change is just too hard to stomach or embrace due to fear. Sometimes you don’t get to heal, you just have to cope and keep it moving. Healing hurts. Give yourself time to heal because you deserve that. Pain will always feel like home when it's familiar. Everyone doesn't deal with or handle pain the same but don't let the pain you've had to endure or currently going through now ruin you and turn you into someone you aren't. Stop lashing out at the wrong people because you are hurting, stop trying to make others feel your pain because someone made you feel theirs, stop looking to hurt others because that's your only way to show you care for someone and stop making others feel sorry for the pain you are going through because you don't know how to handle it without hurting the ones that get close to you. DONT BECOME WHO HURT YOU. We all are hurting some just show it and deal with it differently but don't let your pain have you alone, bitter and miserable because you can't be at peace with your past or present and let go what's not making you happy. Sometimes that pain changes people for the better and they learn to grow, forgive and move on from that pain and sometimes that pain changes people for the worst and they either become the person that hurt them or they use it as a defense mechanism or an excuse to never move on or try something new because believe everyone is out to get them. You can hold on to that pain and allow it to change you for the worst or you can marry and embrace pain and allow it to your fuel the choice is yours, just don’t let it break you… #ThisIsKnowledge #undseverything #unDS #whatsonyourfeet #wearyourkicks (at Philadelphia, Pennsylvania) https://www.instagram.com/p/CXpHbusPeH2/?utm_medium=tumblr
