#unsolicitedhateemail

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WOW.. A Threat from a total stranger I never talked to based on my profile. *Warning! Adult language used!*

Whenever I get these I wonder if this is what these guys do to make themselves feel better.  Seriously, what thrill is there or what do you get out of sending out something hateful let alone threatening to a total stranger you will never meet?  Here is what was written by a 68 year old man in my blogs on another dating site after he read my profile and blogs posted:

MSG:  "Have you looked in a mirror lately? I don't mind looking in mine. And why do all these fat, ugly skanks on this site have to show the world what their saggy tits look like?? Because it IS a fucking sex site! Shove your BS up your backside and enjoy dropping dead alone. Other than that, have a nice day."

Okay, so I do not have a naked photo at all and he has a photo of his penis.  the blog he posted this in was a blog I wrote about men that use a penis photo as a first contact.  I did not name anyone at all.  I merely was stating that if a man thinks the best thing he has as a first impression is a photo of his penis then maybe he should take a good look at himself.  Why?  Because ALL men have a penis even Quasimodo.  If all one required to meet people was genitals then there wouldn’t be a huge industry for beauty, health, and fitness.  There would be no dating sites or clubs for people to go and meet either.  We would just take whomever was walking by us and had the genitals we wanted for sex and just get naked with them and we all know that is not happening. So this guy and his 68 year old penis apparently was bent out of shape that I said this and felt the need to tell me off.  This idea that the dating site I am on is a ‘sex site’ is what most of the MEN see it as and that translates to they think it is an online whorehouse warehouse and women just screw anyone.  Obviously that is not true and it doesn’t happen.  His anger that because I said I didn’t want to see a penis FIRST shows what type of person he really is.  Who gets this angry over a person saying I want to see your smiling face FIRST before you shove a dick in front of me??  He is so angry I am to drop dead and he thinks I am alone, which translates to he thinks I am the only woman that doesn’t like this and I should be like other women - who all have someone - like seeing dicks from strangers shoved in their faces.  LOL

I have yet to understand the thinking behind “Hey I want to meet her.  I will whip out my dick and shove it at her.  She will want me” when you know if it was a strange guy that shoved his dick out at that same man’s daughter he wouldn’t find it so funny.

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OH MY.. and he thinks I am stupid and angry??

I got this email from a total stranger that I have never talked to before, he read my profile and deduced this…

MSG:  YA REALLY OUGHT TA TAKE YOUR STUPID ANGRY ASS OFF THE SITE THEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Umm.. seems HE is the angry one.  I don’t quite get how I am angry because I have preferences.I state clearly I have age limits AND city/state limits.  I am not here to have sex with every guy around the planet with the only thing needed is he have a penis.  If I say “no” to a guy I am stupid and angry, but if I say “yes” I become a tramp???  lol  I still wonder, do they tell their daughters to follow this information?  

Fellas, no matter what dating site you are on this is NOT acceptable behavior.  No one is going to stop and say, “Oh wow, that was stupid of me, and should be nicer and let him screw me and use me for a time or two.  I can just close my eyes and not be grossed out by him and it will be okay because HE will be satisfied.”  That is so NOT going to happen!!!!  Sending hate emails to anyone shows YOU have a problem, not the other way around DUH!!

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I will NEVER understand unsolicited hatred based on a profile...

Seriously, why waste the effort even to spit out venom to someone who doesn’t know you?? Is THIS how you make yourself feel better is all I can say. 

The MSG:  you have beautiful legs for a man. did you have the toy firmly stuffed when you went on the rant/// Just Asking (end of msg.)

I have no clue what made him think I was a man based on my legs in a photo, the rest of me is in the photo.  As for the rant, I guess my profile stating that I was not interested in men my father’s age, which he was, or my kids age (if I had one), p*ssed him off.  Come on folks, I can all but guarantee this same man would be horrified if a man HIS age hit on HIS daughter, yet he felt justified in insulting me based on he couldn’t have a date with me.  Folks, you really look pathetic when you do this, not like the man of the day.

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I am NOT sitting by my computer 24/7, I have a life!!

This is the second time this week that I have had someone contact me while i was not home and they went off as if they were talking to me because they got my ‘autoreply’.  This one was rather rude and insulting, I think that is an understatement, but you decide.

MSG 1: Hey how are you baby? Here he got my ‘autoreply’ that restates what I am looking for and what I am NOT looking for and that I will reply when I get online.  I kid you not, he sent 2 emails after that and here they are!!!! MSG 2: Wow you are a fucking pyscho. I was just trying to be nice. I’m still in the service you dumb bitch. Lol no wonder you are alone. I’m sure nobody wants your crazy bitch ass MSG 3: This is a sex site dumb ass get the fuck off it!!!

OKAY NOW, this is a sex site?? I am expected to just have sex with anyone and everyone?  I wonder, is HE doing that, which would include having gay man sex to me.  Let me point out that this person is 23 and I am 49.  I have no clue why I am a psycho (he spelled it obviously wrong) because I don’t want to have relationships with anyone younger than my own kids would be, that doesn’t make me crazy, it could make him disgusting and delusional though.  

There was no reason for this outburst.  I wasn’t even home again.  I do not sit by my computer all day every day waiting to talk to men.  I have a LIFE.  I have a job, a car that needs maintenance every now and then, I have to cook and clean, and just not be sitting by my computer like a pre-ordered sex slave.  Get real fellas, what is wrong  with you??

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FOLLOW UP... the man that bitched me out for not liking men ignoring my profile.

OH I saw this and it was priceless.  The new status he posted is this:

Status: For every 15 Instant messages I get from men I get 1 from the ladies... I'm not gay!!

LOL SORRRYYYYY I couldn't resist.  I sent him a message stating exactly what he sent to me that he told me that he never heard someone bitch so much about getting messages on a social website they signed up for. Think, those men ignored YOUR profile the same way you ignored MY profile. Maybe you should think this over rather than send out hate emails to women on the site. Maybe you see now that the 'lameness' isn't from me being on here, it is the MEN that IGNORE PROFILES just like you did, but now you complain about it!?! AMAZING how it is different as it is YOUR profile being ignored and now YOU are writing about it on YOUR profile..... isn't so lame now is it???   

Bad me...lol I had to do it.

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A total stranger sent this to me??? WHY??? Have you nothing better to do???

This has to be one of the WORST most miserable people messages I have ever received. Seriously, just wait for his profile to compare it to what he wrote to me, and twice yet!! I don't know this guy, never talked to him, hadn't seen him watch me on cam or anything, yet he does this, all spelling errors are his.......... The first message: blah blah blah... waste more of everyones time... just another phony profile.... have you ever heard someone bitch so much about getting messages on a social website they signed up for? Youre just fucking lame. If you werent so fucking lame people wouldnt be sending you messages explaining it to ya. (end of this message) He gets my auto reply stating I have received his email and I would answer when I am next online, for which he then sends this: Second message: And your gay little fucking auto-reply is about as stupid as shit. Do us all a favor and get the fuck off this site you lame cunt. (end of this message) NOW, go to HIS PROFILE. This is what you find: INTRO LINE: "Don't lie about what you want/READ PROFILE" STATUS: Most woman on here wouldn't know a good man if he was slapping you in the face with his foot long, 2 inch wide cock... PROFILE: Been with girls that don't have the same interest so not looking for anyone that can't keep up. I do realize there is more to life than sex. But it is high on my priority list. Would like to "find" someone for sure but if not, it's not the end of the world to me. I won't be with anyone that wants to make me miserable. In fact I won't put up with anyone's misery at all. I am a happy person and won't be with some insane bitchy woman. Not asking much I don't think. LOL MY IDEAL PERSON: My ideal person would be happy to begin with. I don't do the bitch and complain game. My ideal person would want to have sex every day at least once(I can go at least 3 times FY. I don't want to ever have to beg. It should be quite mutual. This is important that is why I signed on to this site. If it's not the reason you did then it won't work. I only care that I am attracted to this person. What others think means jack to me. No racists, no drunks(some drinking is fine), 420 friendly, no homophobes, race does not matter, no sponges(must work). I will spoil you but you better have some of your own money. Any questions? Does that say it all or what?? I mean, he doesn't want to be with someone that will make him miserable. I say he already IS miserable. He is also controlling, demanding, and a total jerk to send that to someone that didn't even bother him. I think we know WHY this guy can't get a date!!!  He obviously saw that we were not a match right out of the gate and had to show me how ticked off he was... again... shows who has the problem in my opinion.