Hi! I'm confused, but not. lol. Ok, here goes: I consider myself pretty butch presenting, but I do switch between feminine and masculine aesthetics. I'm bi, but I wouldn't turn down a romantic physical or emotional relationship with someone who was trans or non binary, so I lean more towards pan. All that being said, I'm 5'9" and plus size. Am I an ursula? Can a bi woman be an ursula? Am I something else entirely?
You can definitely be ursula. I saw femme lesbians using ursula and bi/pan people using butch, so you could definitely be bi ursula. It's not so known, I don't think anyone will gatekeep you for using terms like this. I think had put sapphic at least in the description? The point is just to bring a term for queer beary women/wlw, since bear is used by beary gay men/mlm.
