always. I am also Not Sufficiently Considering How Harmful It Is to Suggest That Anyone Doesn’t Have An Inner Life, Even If They Are Handsome. Also, How Would I Feel If MEN said They Wanted Beautiful, Vacuous Women To Listen To Their Problems and Sex Them Selflessly All The Time, PRETTY PROBLEMATIC HUH, HMMM CHECKMATE? to which one is tempted to respond: “1., ‘simple,’ as i hope i’ve made clear from context, is a term here connoting not emptiness but calm; 2. essential to this fantasy is the COMPETENCE and SELF-SUFFICIENCY of the fantasy object, whereas the ‘sexy vacuous lady’ fantasy revolves entirely around serving a dude’s needs; 3. I HAVE SPENT MY WHOLE LIFE LISTENING TO MEN SAY THIS, IT HAS FILTERED TOXICALLY INTO MY ACTUAL LIFE IN 900 WAYS, AND IT FEELS BORING, WHAT’S YOUR POINT????”