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Why Is It Always the Little Things That Hurt?

Why Is It Always the Little Things That Hurt?

The most hurtful things that are ever said are the little throwaway comments that nobody ever thinks about. Perhaps that’s why they hurt so much? Because no thought went into them first.

Often, the hurt is more about when things are said, rather than what’s said. And that can be changeable. A comment may not bother you one day, but may break your heart the next.

Some days being childless not by…

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It’s Not Your Job to Make Him a Father

It’s Not Your Job to Make Him a Father

Time and time again, I hear women say “I’m so lucky he stays with me even though I can’t give him kids.”  Of all the things I hear childless women say, and the things I’ve said myself, I think this one pains me the most. It implies that the only reason women are put on this earth is to have children. And that’s just wrong.

I completely understand why we feel this way, we live in a world where…

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