The Phone Call Imperative #5
Have you ever fallen in love with someone’s voice? It’s a beautiful thing.
Have you ever had your ears pierced with a shocking tone in person that made you want to LOL literally or upchuck? Dating tip: Insist on the phone call BEFORE meeting.
I have learned many lessons in the last 4 years. A man’s voice could make or break your desire to meet him in person. I’m sure men have this opinion as well about women. But not just the voice, the inflection, the use of vocabulary, the art of conversation and mild flirting are all part of the phone call imperative.
This helps you connect and to decide if you want to continue getting to know someone before investing in a date.
Flash back....no phone call was had. Texting conversation was fun and delightful and just enough flirty to make me get excited to meet this man for dinner.
Now imagine showing up and greeting your date and you both smile at one another lean in for a friendly little hug and out comes Mickey Mouse...yup. I quickly scanned the room for a helium tank and a prank team to jump out at me. Nope. I went on a dinner date with Mickey freaking Mouse.
I was quick enough to tell him that I may have to jet sooner than expected...mom duty caling (great excuse at ANY given time) and I ordered a salad and a single neat.
Needless to say, I didn’t have the heart to tell him I was instantly turned off, BUT I did tell him that I wish we had a chance to connect by phone prior to meeting.